There is a BDSM provider here in Atlanta, let's just say she's a real "monster", that I'd love to see. I'm curious if HEs are something that are ever on the menu as that would be deal-maker/breaker for me. I'm not at all in the BDSM scene and but would seek that provider in a second if that was part of it. How common is HE as part of the BDSM package? Anyone ever crossed over from vanilla-hobbyist over to the BDSM side?

(I'm posting in the Atlanta board over the BDSM board - because I'm more interested in my fellow Atlantans opinions than my own)