Agree with the point Queen Bia made regarding the mess-ifying result of delivering a quality BBBJ. Along that vein, why would I spend the same 2+hrs getting dolled up like I do for a regular date, just to 'ruin' it for some 30min/minimal price point activity?🤷🏻♀️ Also, as much as I enjoy delivering world class oration, I don't get my... ahem... rocks... off that way. And then have to spend ANOTHER hour+ fixing that mess so I can see someone who actually does things TO ME that *I* get off on *while paying* full freight?? Yeah no, it just doesn't make sense in my world.
Or...for guys lookin for this, is it ok to just roll out of bed and answer the door in my raggedy, oversized Garfield T-shirt, fuzzy bear claw slippers, hair bonnet and turmeric face mask? (I don't work from home but you get the idea) Does it matter how 'made up' the blow-er is or do you just want a cheap place to put something?
I'll also add that as a lady with a 2hr minimum and not the lowest entry price point, it can be tough enough to get adequate screening info out of a guy who's got the time and money to enjoy my playground. Just recently had a guy send a DL with EVERYTHING but his first name and pic redacted and an expired work badge with a partial first name and last name (and no, he wasn't listed on the company's site as befitting someone of his career/licensing level). There was also what appeared to be a gun on his floorboard and what seemed to be a prison fencing/razor wire reflecting in his sunglasses (yeah, cuz he wore SUNGLASSES in the pic I'm supposed to screen with). It took 5 rounds of communication to get 2 references and I STILL haven't gotten adequate employment info... So is a dude looking for a cheap blow-n-go really gonna be *more* forthcoming with adequate screening info?? Possible, but doubtful.
In my mind, there is a kink side to the whole BnG idea but there'd be some pretty big caveats/parameters for safety - the 'turnstyle/vending machine' dynamic being the kink of it all.
I understand why a guy would like a cheap, easy BnG. Heck, I'D LOVE that idea if it were available for myself! But I don't think you're gonna find a higher end lady willing to do that unless you've developed a very strong rapport over time doing all the regular things first.
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