I'm not really looking to trash anyone but I'm so pissed I need to vent a little. I also welcome feedbeack to let me know if I may be in the wrong.

The situation is thus, I tried to set up an appointment with a local lady. I called the night before to set up an appointment for he next day. She indicated for me to call her at a certain time to confirm. I did that but she wasn't there to answer her phone. The message I left indicated that I still wanted to keep the appointment for the time we set. I also indicated for her to call me back for the directions to where she was doing incall in case it wasn't her normal place. I also indicated that if she called and got my answering machine it was because I had to step out to the store but to leave the information for I would be back, but I also reiterated that I wanted to keep our appointment. This was about 6 hours before our appointment.

Sure enough I went out maybe an hour later and when I returned she had left a message indicating for me to call her back if I wanted to keep the appointment?????? I must have said three times that I wanted to keep the appointment when I left the message. I called her right back and she told me that someone else wanted to see her 30 minutes before me and did I still want to keep my slot. I told her I did so she said to be at a certain spot close to the area and she would call me with the final directions. I started to smell a rat because I knew that she did not do 30 minutes sessions.

I asked her did she have any intention of keeping out meeting. She said yes after trying to get me to move my time back 30 minutes which I could not due to other things I had going on. That was the second red flag.

So like a fool I drove to the designated area. the time came for when she would call me. No call. Five minutes passed, no call, ten, fifteen, not call. I finally called and it went straight to voice mail. Her cell phone was off meaning that she was in session with the guy she booked over me with.

Now I should have known better because this lady has been flaky since day one. Not very professional. The first time I met her, she arranged for me to meet her at a local Mexican resturant to sort of feel me out. I guess that was part of her screening processes back then. Three beers later, I guess I passed and followed her to her hotel. The session starts like most do. It starts to heat up, and then the announcement, "I don't have any rubbers, do you???????" What the F@#K!!!!!! That is like a policeman going to work without his gun, Superman going out without his cape! I said no. Now prior to going to the hotel we passed two gas stations and a pharmacy. It wasn't like she went to look in her stass and discovered she didn't have anything. She knew. So the main even was canceled and a big refund came back my way.

But I gave her the benefit of the doubt and tried to reschedule a few weeks later. We set a time, I showed up, nobody there. I called and left a message and turned around to go home. She called me back 5 minutes later and told me she was in her girl friemd's room but had been drinking and asked if I would come back a few hours later after she rested. Now mind you this is maybe 1 in the afternoon! I came back a few hours later at the agreed upon time. No Nicki! I left another message and left. She called back and appologized and asked me to come back a few hours later. This time I called before driving back and sure enough she asked to cancel out because she wasn't feeling well but promised to give me a free session the next time to make it up.

I'm thinking, she just score major points. So I reschedule. On the day I did meet her then, she was drunk. You could see the half empty bottles all over the place, smell the cigaretts and alcohol in the room. Clothes all over the place. Major turn offs and I would have left but this was a free session. I sit down and she tells me for about an hour about some client who is stalking her and is trying to get too personal with her even though he knows she is married etc. Then we final get around to the session and she tells me she is really tired so could I make it quick and she will make it up to me on the next visit!!!!

Well the next visit was the start of this long tale. Can you guess that I'm pissed. I know a provider's time is valuable but so is mine. Booking over someone and not being professional enough to be ready when you do book is very low class. Please let me know if this was my fault though. I know I'm not perfect, but I do expect for the lady to be professional if I'm going to treat her with the respect she deserves.

Hey wolfpack,

Seems like you went out of your way with this provider.  There doesn't have to be a good guy or bad guy!  Did you write a review and get your credit.  If you ask me, you should just move on to the next provider and have some fun!

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It's your fault because you keep trying to see her..She has some real problems.. Go to someone else, it's your money..

Yes I wrote a review that was finally posted. Its funny but she has a ton of great reviews but it seems I may have started a trend of guys saying, "yeah she is great BUT......". Makes me realize I wasn't the only one. I don't want to name her in this format for that was not the purpose of this thread.

Trust me, I've moved on. The funny thing was she called me 4 days after our last schedule non-appointment to ask me "Did we have something scheduled". Here is the switch, I was the one who hung up.

As it stands, a friend of mine scheduled with her. He went to use the rest room before their session and saw a used bottle of Valtrex in the garbage. Not knowing if it was her's or not, he did not want to take any chances, and canceled right then and there.