until taking the matter into my own.. um.. hands and experimenting with toys. I'm sure you know all about making her relax and going slow, but maybe the problem is that you're trying to go from fingering straight to penetration? Have you tried an inflatable dildo/butt plug? It was the only thing that one time got me to being able to play with my biggest dildo that's about 2"-2.5" in diameter! Then there are "anal training kits"- sets of different size plugs, but I'm not sure how well they work.

Hope some of it will help you to expand her horizons a little more

~Alex

I have to have a vibrator on my" C" to help take my mind off it & allows me to relax more  . Then of course going slow with lube.. It feels Great when we start  going PLUS I have an Amazing O doing it.
xoxo
P.s Sometimes a small drink or a glass of wine Helps "if that's your thing".

This was the first time I have started a thread here, and will probably be my last.  My thanks to the ones who rightly use this forum for the exchange of ideas and information and even entertainment (and particularly to the ones who offered mature and serious and intelligent remarks to my solicitation).  Gladly that is the majority.  To the sad minority of individuals who have nothing better in their lives than to spew their mindless drivel I offer this quote:  "Never attribute to malice that which can be explained by stupidity."  I would say that you know who you are, but sadly you probably don't.

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problems taking things in my vagina most women can take in their azz. Lube does not help anything IMO. Just makes things go in faster, not better which can lead to a number of issues too gross to elaborate on. Bottom line...find women who can handle you. I can't tell you the number of times guys have said they are just average, and I about passed out. Not all of us can accommodate you in the back or even the front. Hooker's areas are not made bigger just because we have sex..you are born with a certain size end of story.

Many women use a butt plug to relax (stretch) the anal region out before a date, which I never got. I mean it is supposed to be air tight for the guy to get the sensation he is looking for so what good does having it go right in really do for him? Of all the times I have had anal, the guy was under 5 inches and not wide either. Still, it took some doing to make it feel amazing. If she is not relaxed with you for whatever reason, sex is going to be rather difficult...that includes the vagina as well.

Most of the time....

If your partners is really aroused then the ass MOST of the time will open up. My ass conforms to ANY size cock if I am aroused The more you do it, the easier it gets. Try letting her use a powerful vibe such as a Hitachi and slip the head in and VERY slowly push in a little at a time. By the time she is close to cumming you may be surprised that your cock may be completly inside!!
If you still have a problem with this then give me a call
Hugs and kisses
TL