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der441 226 Reviews 111 reads
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There are things I've told my ATF's that I've never told to my family or closest friends, and vice versa. There are things about my life that nobody will ever know but me. If it's a temporary gf, then I usually send myself, with a bit of help from my "personal assistant" side of my personality. After all, it's just a fantasy.

 However, if you are intimate with someone long enough, it's only natural to share more of a deeper part of yourself. I think it's all dependent on the situation. I also think it's nice to be able to show yourself to someone who may or may not have a vested interest in the other person's life. Gives a different perspective.

SeductionMindHacks1614 reads

I'm not asking about screening.

What I mean is, in the talking (in person and digital) part of things, how real do you keep it with your temporary GF?  Do you really "do you" in the interaction - or do you send your "representative"?

Ladies - do you have any thoughts on this? Do you see through it if the guy is "fronting"? Do you care?

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ValdostaKid132 reads

For when I was married and protecting that relationship,  for God only knows why, I am exactly the person I portray, I hate fake, lying people

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ThisIsCaylee122 reads

We all have the part of our personality that is the “real me.” We let this real part of us show when we are with people we are comfortable with like family. We all also have a “best behavior” mask that we wear when we are in more formal situations or in situations where we think we will be judged.  

More often than not, most of us wear the mask. I have found in certain situations that blindfolds help ;-)

xoxo
Caylee

Related Link: ThisIsCaylee!

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gentleguy1020137 reads

I dropped 99% of the mask! I am what you see and hear!
Many reasons ... too much work, not really worth it ...

Now I might still give a fake polite smile to the server at the restaurant who just served me cold coffee and I am asking for a hot one ... lol!

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ThisIsCaylee124 reads

...we act in a way that we *think* others think we should.  

BUT, I think the reason that most of us are even here is because we’d like to be able to let those walls down, at least once in a while.  

xoxo
Caylee

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der441112 reads

There are things I've told my ATF's that I've never told to my family or closest friends, and vice versa. There are things about my life that nobody will ever know but me. If it's a temporary gf, then I usually send myself, with a bit of help from my "personal assistant" side of my personality. After all, it's just a fantasy.

 However, if you are intimate with someone long enough, it's only natural to share more of a deeper part of yourself. I think it's all dependent on the situation. I also think it's nice to be able to show yourself to someone who may or may not have a vested interest in the other person's life. Gives a different perspective.

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MoMontana119 reads

As long as your kind and fun

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Mia2014112 reads

As long as your a gentlemen and we have a good time with each other it really doesn't matter to me.

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SeductionMindHacks111 reads

Great response Mia.  You seem like a very cool sexy woman from what I can tell in your posts and site

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SabineSavas120 reads

You can keep it real but not reveal every detail.  

Example; I have a beloved horse. I can tell you a ton of stories about him but not tell you where I ride or board him.  

I'd prefer people I can be real with and they me, but I'm more concerned about the memories we're creating, then knowing what school your child went too. If personal things are shared, they stay private. It's called discretion and it's partly what I'm paid for. It's something I expect in return.

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