I never meant to imply that any lady would agree to an appointment with someone based only on their board posts. I would assume, and hope, that rigorous screening would take place in any circumstance.

Yes....some of "us" have the ability to "pick people apart". I try to reserve that unique talent for only the ones who really deserve it. Like someone coming on the board asking for info, with zero history, claiming to be experienced and helpful, then making smart comments about toftt.

Unlike many others.....I don't dislike or disparage people who aren't like me.
Yes.....I can pick people apart and think some don't deserve a chance.
You, and many other kind ladies, may not go after someone.....and think they do deserve a chance.
It's only my opinion, but I think the world needs both kind of people. It creates balance.
If we were all alike.....the world would be a pretty damn boring place.

I only made the comment I did.....for the benefit of some ladies who might not be busy, or smart, or experienced.....and offer themselves up to an ISO post from an unknown....and not screen too much.
I think we've all heard far too much about bad things that can and have happened. My only concern is that everyone stays safe........even the ones I may not care for......and don't care for me at all.....lol.

Just sayin'
DD