Normally, I go into a session feeling very nervous for obvious reasons one of wI had a great session the other day. I have seen this lady a few times before. hich is my age. For the first time I was completely comfortable. I actually felt like I belonged there. Like I was spending time with a lover/friend. We goofed on one another. We laughed  and we shared our dreams. There wasn’t the passion that  I felt in the past . But only because I didn’t want it. Lord knows this lady is capable of providing that. Instead there was an  awesome tenderness that was fantastic.

I imagine this is the difference  between a  session with a younger man and an older one like my self. The young man has  an urgency.  A need to be fore filled . I was content with the tender caressing, kissing, hugging and gazing in her eyes. Of course there was some sex also, but that was just icing on the cake. There was no happy ending just a happy everything. It was the best session I ever had. To this ladies credit,  we could never be a couple, but she provided the perfect fantasy and that is what it is all about. She brought me down to her age for just a little while.

I won’t mention her name because I realize that this is not a good selling point for her. Most guys are not  looking for such I a session. I actual wasn’t either going in. it just naturally flowed that way. How lucky am I? I seriously doubt that a young women has any idea of how fantastic an experience they are capable of providing and that is a shame. If they only knew.

I only hope I didn’t disappoint her with my performance or lack of. I know a young women has needs but, I am sure there are lots of men that take care of that for her. I am just wondering what you ladies think of this type session?

Who is this sexy lady?

There are many ways to define 'a hobby', but one of my favorites is 'an outlet to briefly escape reality'. Whether it's movies, sports, DragonCon, etc., there are a number of outlets for us these days.

If this younger lady provided this kind of outlet for you on a number of levels, then pay her the finest compliment a client can - repeat business as often as possible.  

Just don't get caught up in the 'we so connected' (paraphrase) aspects as she's most likely a good actress.

And let's face it, a good Companion is just that.  An actress in the reality show of your life, but well worth the price of admission.


my 2 cents,

ga_kosh

A session like that is a fantastic selling point for this lady.  I think most hobbyists as well as providers long for sessions like that.  Now, who is this lovely woman?  Or at least direct us to her review.

Tom

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playing with your head dude.
As far as disappointing her, as long as you left something for her she is happy with you performance.

I would not see her again if I were you.

good luck.

if you're worried about "disappointing her with your performance" I am afraid you might be heading for a fall

don't get hurt Bro

It's easy to let those good feelings get out of control. That can happen on her part, too. When that happens, it almost never ends well.

Finding someone like that is rare. I know because I found someone too.  The lines between reality and fantasy get very blurred, I assure you!  

If I can give one small hint of advice, just remember for your sake and hers, that this is in the end, a monetary connection.  Have a GREAT time together, and hope that the fantasy holds, but be prepared to bow out gracefully if or when the time comes.  Maybe she is just a great actress, and maybe she really likes you, you may never know for sure.  But enjoy it while it lasts, and try not to make it TOO personal.

I personally have learned from experience to draw the line on learning her real name.  I am sure my ATF would tell me in a heartbeat, there is that much connection there, I just know how much it complicates things, so we keep that part purely professional.  I still love being around her, and generously pay for her time.  And looking into her eyes makes my heart melt, so Viva la Fantasy!

Thanks to all that responded. I think this is an intriguing subject. First off let me say I am no fool. I am so much older than her that there is no way that love can ever enter into the picture. This Is what makes me feel so awkward going it. Not only does she have to pretend to like me but I have to pretend that I have a right to be there even if I am paying. I will continue to see her as long as we both can keep up the fantasy. The only question I have in my mind is how much of her performance is based on her acting ability and how much is due to the fact that she is just such an incredibly nice person?