because I respect our privacy and safety. I would expect the same from the lady. I just check them out as I do every attractive lady and go on with my day.

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an experience where a guy winked and smiled then continued on his way. Later in the evening he emailed me and set an appointment!!!!!  It lead to a phenomenal time.  

GK

seriously?  Fuck it, I don't even need to waste another keystroke.  figure out your shit on your own...how bout that?

But that's just me can't speak for anyone else

....even from afar you dunno if she's with a bf or husband even (maybe close by).

... I give any other woman I have, could, or will Lust after.
Ex-lovers/GFs, possible or soon to be lovers/GFs - why discriminate?  
Many of the possibilities give cynical looks back, but my exes almost always smile back -especially if they recognize me.

I saw a provider out in public once.  I recognized her from one of her online profiles, but of course I didn't say hey aren't you so and so from that site?

That winking and waving shit shouldn't happen either. You never know when a spouse or kids are in the vicinity.
I have seen providers in public and just pretend they are not there, just like I do with a couple of providers on this board.

When I did encounter a provider in public, I completely ignored her and lingered around to let her leave the store in privacy, without having her worry that I might see who she was with or her car or anything like that. I was just curious as to how others deal with it.

I think it adds to the mystery of what we are doing

Its kind of an enticing turn on to have a hidden secret in public between me and a hobbyist that no one else knows.  I would definitely want to see him soon after that!! lol

Reach into you wallet with one hand and unzip your fly with the other.  Look over to your SO, or in her absence, someone you wished was your SO and say, "here, this is the way I want you to do it."  

Seriously dude, the ladies are people too - respect that they have private lives outside of seeing you.  They take enough grief from us gents in the process of making sure we have a good time without us intruding on their personal lives.  There is a big difference between smiling and leering.  One is innocuous, the other gets you slapped in public.

I avoid this issue altogether by living far from Atlanta.  The chances of running into a provider are extremely remote that way.  If I did see then, I'd avoid them to prevent any problems.  I adore all those with whom I have spent some glorious times, but I respect them and myself too much.  

Merry Christmas to all.  

....I always say hi to everyone and just gave that innocent hello.  However, seeing her out in public prompted a get together.