Thanks for the suggestion. You do what works for you and I will do what works for me. Until I can be shown that I violated a rule, hear from a monitor or staff, or am told that I hurt or offended someone I will continue to sort through the scads of private messages I get in response to this type of post, offering very reasonable sessions with reputable providers. I know many more providers than I review and this is where they hang out. I don't do this style of post very often. I' m not a message board serial solicitor.

I agree Fallon, I don't post much, but I had to respond to this...
I do my research whether I'm doing a dbl or just seeing one lovely lady. But Dbls are even more complex.
I've had the pleasure of doing several dbls and it has never been an easy event to plan. Well worth it I'll add, but time consuming. Guys  If you're like me... the ladies need to be into each other and you need to have seen at least one of them before so that there's chemistry you can bank on.
I had the pleasure of doing a couple of dbls with Steffi Stevens and I let her pick the 3rd.
The whole "Pickme" thing is a bit crazy I agree.
This isn't a shill for Steffi... but we've seen each other enough that she knows what I like and she knows what she likes. It made for amazing times. just my two cents.

The OP wasn't inviting you to register your discontent with his process.  He wants a threesome, and he's looking for replies from girls who are interested.  You sure are being a wet blanket for someone who wants "everybody to be happy and have fun."

While I totally understand when a provider might not want to respond to a post like this out of a feeling of not wanting through hoops, there is at least some aspect of this request that I find perfectly acceptable...

As someone who is more spontaneous (or compulsive, depending on your view), most of my experiences in the hobby end up being more shorter in notice than longer.  It's just how I'm wired, and what works for me.

I love the idea of finding someone available right when I am available, it lends that feeling of "the stars are aligne and d, today's my lucky day!"

Of course, I never expect a provider to be available and am very pleasant regardless of availability, but eventually it works out and I find someone available and it's cool.

I must assume that if the provider doesn't want to jump through hoops then she'll say she's not available, and it's all good.

I realize that some providers want this treated with more romance, but I just prefer the feeling of mutual spontaneity.

Not saying anyone's right or wrong here, just exposing some inner thoughts...