I mean just like you care about your safety so do the women. My advice would be use an alias, most women just want to put a name to a face. If you have multiple references and whitelist and go by that same name, everybody’s happy. But as far as someone just getting into the hobby not wanting to share that information is unreasonable. We’re taking big risks. Not the day and age to not be verifying people
There are some very highly rated, extremely fine looking ladies on here who won't even consider scheduling without first obtaining my legal name via their booking form/ screening process. I'm talking about a few creme de la creme providers and not just in this town.
(I ask politely each time for exception processing based on my available references, multiple whitelists, etc.).
I wasn't about to share id information electronically before the new laws. I think it's an even more insane level of exposure now, no matter how tempting. Impasse each time. Oh well. It's getting to wherever I see that screening requirement it's not worth asking.
Discuss....am I being unreasonable or appropriately cautious?
The creme de la creme did not get to be in such high standing by sharing the names of their clients, no matter how important you or they may think you are. They want your name so they can run it through a database/blacklist site...If you've always been the perfect gentleman, you don't have any need for concern ORMAYBE you are hiding something and think you are above the standards and practices of these women. The new laws aren't gonna lock you away for sending over private info BTW...So IMHO, you are being unreasonable if you have the glowing whitelists and references as you claim.
To your point, we're all hiding something, are we not?(Well maybe not GaG)
But in my case, it's not about blacklists. I just don't need that info floating electronically around on people's computers, no matter how tempting... Not moved by your HO. ( See what I did there?)
I'd be more concerned about having a social media account than a top rated lady having my real name...I don't hide much myself...GaG just doesn't give a rats ass..LOL
If being outed could ruin my life, you can bet your ass I too would not even consider giving out potential blackmail info to someone who might decide to get revenge for the most trivial of perceived transgressions some day.
Please keep in mind that I have been "outed" by more than one "well reviewed" TER provider with the intention of doing me harm. My crime? Calling them out for bad behavior on the boards. Just because a woman is a so called "top rated lady" doesn't mean she won't go BSC some day and splash your personal information all over the internet. I am living proof it can happen.
If being outed could destroy you, is getting some pussy REALLY worth putting a loaded gun in the hands of someone who might use it against you someday? You are all free to do as you please, but I only give out my personal info because there is really nothing anyone can do with it to hurt me. EVERYONE in my personal and professional life already knows I am a whore mongering pig. lol
I mean just like you care about your safety so do the women. My advice would be use an alias, most women just want to put a name to a face. If you have multiple references and whitelist and go by that same name, everybody’s happy. But as far as someone just getting into the hobby not wanting to share that information is unreasonable. We’re taking big risks. Not the day and age to not be verifying people
What is a DNS list? Do not see? And does the list include the infraction or is every lumped together? Just curious - I can't imagine doing anything myself to make that list.
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