Sexual pleasures in private are much more enjoyable when there is intellectual and emotional foreplay. Taking time to share conversation and a drink with a beautiful, elegant, intelligent and sophisticated woman to arouse each other's senses and desires for what follows is central to sensual, erotic and sexual enjoyment. For a mature man who would like to spend two to three hours with me enjoying this experience with the full knowledge that we can decide how flirtatious and sexually exciting we might be in public and private, I invite you to reply to this posting.  I am selective, so tell me about yourself, and what pleasures you might want to enjoy in public and private. A secure and confident man knows what he wants and I invite you to share that with me. We will discuss specific details in private emails.