This one is a strange fruit. I haven't been in the southern part, so cannot talk about it. I can tell you that Hanoi does have some action going on. The thing is I have not seen any girl on the streets, at least in the center of the city, even though you will find if you search a little. So don't expect a Bangkok type of atmosphere.
There are a couple of places in the old quarter where you can get what you are looking for, if you are willing to climb some stairs and end up on a massage table. You will find more action outside of the center of Hanoi, but that becomes a bit more difficult because of the distances. We are after all talking about a 7 million people city... So it is spread.
Besides the massage tables, you can also try your luck at a couple of hotels located 20 minutes away from the center. These hotels are real hotels with a floor reserved to meet girls.
Finally, I would maybe try free lancers. That is I think the best option if you stay there several days. There are several places where you can go in, have a drink and get acquainted with the girl you feel attracted to. No pressure, no intimidation.
I must add that I never felt at risk while in Hanoi. That said, caution is always your best friend, and trust your intuition; if you feel something isn't right, back off and find safe haven.
PM me if you want more details about places and areas.
Enjoy your trip.
Posted By: oldguy666
Planning a trip to Vietnam next year. It doesn't seem like there's a whole lot of good places for hobbying.
Am I wrong? Any recommendations?
Thanks.
og