I went to Hong Kong and most providers charged roughly HKD 700 for 30 minutes. With shower it came down to 25 minutes and I couldn't orgasm most of the time in 25 minutes of action. Plus a lot of the providers wanted to control the experience and they wanted to jump on top of me and ride me rather the other way around. Should I be more assertive? Also it seemed as if the providers felt that they should be ones having the fun. Another thing I was worried about was whether the girls were of legal age since there was no way to check.

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Sounds like a horrible problem to me

We have sites like this?   It seems this was avoidable.  

700 HK dollars is $89 US for anyone wondering...

Seems like a persojal problem with esteem more than anything?

"Should i be more assertive?" Dude, its your cash she is undressing and blowing you for, dont get shy now.

Personally I would avoid communist China.  

 
One of my friends visited Taiwan and got great service at cheap prices. Maybe he'll pop in here and relate his experiences.

You’re right. Notice that the OP didn’t provide a review of or a link to the alleged poor provider. Complains about his experience, but doesn’t protect anyone else. SMH.

In the past 5 years, I've made two trips to Taiwan.  Through a family friend, I was able to see a few providers.  The gals were all from the mainland.  They tend to be "au natural" with a hairy bush.

The places used were cheap hotels in the city.  What was really weird was that upon sohwering, the only "towels" given to me to use were large "paper towels", which was more like a get out of the shower, shake yourself off and then pat yourself dry....  LOL

The rate was fairly cheap (by USA standards).  a 45 minute meeting was just over $200.
Have your Google Translate handy or speak Mandarin.  

I just went to the 141 buildings and hence the provider had no name.

Sounds like you ran into some common issues that people in the scene talk about. In many parts of Hong Kong the standard session times are short and the prices (around HKD 700 for ~30 min) can feel rushed, especially once you factor in shower time — 25 min of actual intimacy doesn’t leave much room to relax or fully enjoy yourself.

A few things worth noting:

If the provider seems to be calling all the shots, it’s OK to politely assert your preferences from the start. Clear communication about what you want and what makes you comfortable can help set the tone.

Some providers focus more on their own style of service, but good ones will ask what you prefer or be open to suggestions — check reviews or profiles on a trusted site like https://hk-escort.com/ to get a sense of who might be a better match for your expectations.

Regarding age concerns, reputable directories and platforms usually require verification — again, with vetted providers can help give you more confidence that you’re dealing with legitimate, consenting adults.

Everyone’s experience is different, and part of finding what works is learning how to communicate your needs and choosing providers whose style matches what you’re looking for.

seeing $300 - $400/ hr ... do I have the conversion right?  
Thought HK was on the cheaper side?