Ladies -- I couldn't find this topic addressed in the last year or so backwards that I searched.
I don't think there's a single one of us who would not be interested in trying a session with a lady who uses a female condom. My question: When booking an appointment, how should we ask you if you would be willing to use one for our session? I think virtually all of us want to be polite and respectful but I can't figure out a way to ask other than to come right out with it. Most of us have been in the hobby long enough to believe that asking a question like this comes pretty close to crossing the line between what's acceptable and what's not acceptable when setting up an appointment. And, I don't want to break the mood to stop and ask you right in the middle of things getting really hot and passionate. Advice and guidance would be most appreciated!
How about you buy a 3 pack from Amazon and bring it with you to the session? Considering they're not that cheap, at least compared to the usual fare, I am sure that would be appreciated.
Honestly, have you looked at them and how they are supposed to work? I tried them once because the lady wasn't too together and had no condoms at hand. After rummaging through her dresser drawers, she found a FC and asked if I minded using one of those. The inner ring has to be inserted like a diaphragm, and the big outer ring has to be held in position, at least for starters. The visuals and mechanics are negatives for me.
Posted By: Max101
Ladies -- I couldn't find this topic addressed in the last year or so backwards that I searched.
I don't think there's a single one of us who would not be interested in trying a session with a lady who uses a female condom. My question: When booking an appointment, how should we ask you if you would be willing to use one for our session? I think virtually all of us want to be polite and respectful but I can't figure out a way to ask other than to come right out with it. Most of us have been in the hobby long enough to believe that asking a question like this comes pretty close to crossing the line between what's acceptable and what's not acceptable when setting up an appointment. And, I don't want to break the mood to stop and ask you right in the middle of things getting really hot and passionate.
You can bring some with you, but don't expect that she'll know how to use them. I tried that and it went nowhere. The best is probably to check reviews and see if other guys got to use them. Otherwise, wait until you meet and then ask about them for the future
...female condoms. It's still a relatively new search criterion, so many profiles still say: "Don't Know." But you can do a search and find providers that you know definitely use FCs.
If providers use FCs, they should update their profiles to indicate it. It's good for business; given the choice of two otherwise equal providers, I will always choose the one that is FC-friendly. I love FCs. They're the closest thing to bareback.
I put it in my P411 profile and always ask the lady to review my "detailed profile" to make sure we are compatible. Normally they will commit one of three ways. -Love FC's, -Never used one but I am game -NO I do not/will not use FC
...you guys ask, i wonder how you made it to be over 60 years old! Crossing a line! What line? You're supposed to be in charge....it's your money. He who pays the fiddler calls the tune. Ever hear of it or did you have to ask your wife what it meant! What an embarrassment to the male gender!
...you guys ask, i wonder how you made it to be over 60 years old! Crossing a line! What line? You're supposed to be in charge....it's your money. He who pays the fiddler calls the tune. Ever hear of it or did you have to ask your wife what it meant! What an embarrassment to the male gender!
OK -- I'll take the bait. "Crossing the line" means getting into a conversation (email or voice) that is much to explicit. You might as well ask her how much she charges for a blow job...
I put it in my P411 profile and always ask the lady to review my "detailed profile" to make sure we are compatible. Normally they will commit one of three ways. -Love FC's, -Never used one but I am game -NO I do not/will not use FC
They make their choices and I make my choices.
Great idea. Thanks for sharing this approach. I just updated my profile.
So since you typically see "regular clients" after 3-4 visits they have to abide by your strict email regimen? That's like zero fun. If after a visit or two I can't have some playful back and forth prior to a meet, I lose interest. Do you rescreene a recent repeat as vigoursly as a newbie?
I typically don't see many new ladies. Maybe one every 1-2 months. They screen rigorously as well they should. That said, the ladies I see regularly, one usually weekly, don't spend much if any time "rescreening." If after 3-4 years a gal doesn't know me well enough to have little foreplay via text or email, I'm not seeing them anyways at that point if that makes sense. I don't care how women screen. That's their biz but after a few visits if I'm still being run through that process with references being checked and strict email protocols etc I move on. Just different strokes for different folks as you say I guess. -- Modified on 11/6/2016 7:37:20 AM
If neither her p411 profile nor TER profile denote her FC friendliness, after passing her screening asking her about it is to me perfectly reasonable. If she disagrees and blows you out of the water even if she's met you lol, so be it. I'm not quite 60 yet thanks be and this is a perfect reminder of why......oh nvm to hell with it.
I just can't imagine not being able to email or text gals I've known for years and have a mutual implicit trust with on any topic almost any time. That's all. As I said "different strokes" etc thanks for the clarification.
It is true that P411 has it as a menu click...it is perfectful acceptable to show up with your own condoms too whether regualr or female. I would discuss it prior to getting hot and heavy...as for in advance, I get asked frequently. It is a bit presumptuous to assume that is how we will spend our time together before meeting the first time...if phrased generally, it does not bother me personally.
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