I had prostate cancer 3 years ago but had many radiation treatments. The Doctor says the radiation has the side effects and one is an liability to have full erection. I get a partial but not firm enough to penetrate. I can orgasm (thank God). I like to make the lady happy so there is oral. I think I'm good at it. Do providers shy away from a guy using a strap on for them to make them satisfied?

Are we talking about your need to feel as if you've pleased her or your need to feel some sort of penetrative interaction because the body mechanics mimic the act you're used to?  
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If it's the former, I think I'd rather stick to being pleasured orally and digitally because it's YOU pleasing me. Aside from the personal/emotionally connective side of things, skin just feels different than plastic and there's no potentially awkward phase of getting into the harness, or things being pinched or chaffing. On the other hand, I luuuv the body contact and "whole being involvement" aspect of good ol' standard mish so I'd def enjoy that aspect of the strap on scenario.  
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So I guess if it were left up to ME, I'd probably opt for doing anything and everything ourselves minus PIV. Lots of making out, mutual oral/69, whatever is best for you to finish and if I still wanted more, back to the mutual oral.  
 
One of my mostest favoritest friends back in the day had prostate cancer twice. I don't recall the details of his treatment but we met before he started treatment (he wanted to get all the use out of it before the chance he might not be able to), took a break during, saw each other afterward (he was fully functional - woohoo!) and then kept in touch after the second diagnosis which was around the time I took hiatus. I'm glad you're cancer free, even if you have some limitations now🙏🏼

Providers do not shy away from using toys to be satisfied. I myself always have several options I bring just in case. Who doesn’t love a private show? I am multi orgasmic. I love to make you happy! 😊  

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