When I first started I whitelisted a man who had no reviews and to my dismay he was upset. Why, because he didn't want to be implicated in seeing anyone if his wife found his account. I had to ask for help to take it off which takes only a minute.

If a man wants to be whitelisted that I have seen and can match him to his handle I will do it.

Everyone has a different view on who they will white list. Some think it's putting your seal of approval on a gentleman which I guess it is. I think it just adds credibility to a gentleman's time on the job. It puts a history of his travels for others to see. Imagine a man has written 50 reviews and not one white list. If he was validated along the way you would know he was for real and all those reviews aren't fake.

I wish the whitelist was used much more

Kisses Haley

Dear Greeneyedude,

I'd be thrilled to whitelist a friend from TER. It's a way for us to express our appreciation for their gentlemanly conduct. And it helps our sisters in pleasure.

I do think it's best to ask us. Some would prefer to keep their preferences discreet.

It's good to have this forum and I'm happy to be a part of it. I'll be back more often in the future.

Smiles and Kisses,
Anenke

wasn't a TER member, so she couldn't do it. It's never come up with anyone else.

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One of my white list is from a lady that did it without asking. It was fine with me. I appreciated it. She was a favorite. I say was as she is no longer in the biz.
The other I asked for. I figured it would help with credibility. Since then I have read on here that some ladies pay attention to it some don't. I haven't pursued it. If a lady wants to white list me I take it as a compliment.

I see no reason not to ask for it if you want it. I don't object to the lady doing it without having been asked. As I said I see it as a compliment. For discretionary reasons I can see how it might be better to ask though.

Ladies, the guys can chose if we want it to be visible or not. Just FYI.

But maybe now I will ask first!

I think its up to the lady.  Should I ask for a compliment??? Cause that is basically what it is.  "I am a good boy"  I love getting them though.  Its a pleasant surprise.  But even with whitelist most providers will ask for references.