I am 66 and recently started seeing the ladies again after a few years absence.
I agree with all of the above posters. I think that the Pointer Sisters said it best for me in this verse from their song, "I'm So Excited"
I want to love you, feel you, wrap myself around you
I want to squeeze you, please you
I just can't get enough
And if you move real slow I'll let it go
I want to See the woman who I am with and appreciate her beauty.
I want to Touch her, and get pleasure from her softness.
I want to Smell her, and associate her scent with her image.
I want to Hold her and remember all of her physical attributes.
This is all part of the experience and pleasure.