I've been chatting with a young woman on another site for several months. We have been teasing each other online. She is out of state and I truly and I seriously have feelings and desires for the younger woman. She asked to stay with me for awhile and explore my local area and I accepted. She is the  type of lady I could consider for a long term relationship, even at the tender age of 33.

sometimes fairy tales do come true..

...finally lose her virginity to someone she's never seen in person?  I'm dubious.*

It's quite unusual for a woman to have remained a virgin till the age of 33.  Did she decide ages ago to save herself for that special someone?  Does she believe that her first time should be magical and perfect like a fairytale?  I think it's likely she has some very huge expectations or baggage attached to this act that may result in her being disappointed no matter what you do.  So talk to her.  Reassure her that sex is wonderful, but it takes time and practice to learn skills.  It takes practice to learn how your own body responds and what you like the best and how to communicate that to your partner.   NOBODY is great at it the first time, even if they are with a caring experienced lover.  Be willing to expect a good time without too much pressure or expectations.  If it goes great, that's wonderful.  If it's not that great, no worries, you just need more practice!

... if I were you, alarm bells and not wedding bells would be ringing. Do you really trust this woman to stay with you in your home although you never have actually met, and a 33-year-old virgin who has been teasing you to boot? Why don't you either go see her for yourself -- and stay in a hotel, not at her place -- or if she comes to you, put her up in a hotel for a night or two first.

then why are you coming for advice to a fuck board and asking a bunch of whoremongers?  I, for one, have no interest in fucking virgins and have no experience in the matter.

and is six foot three with a beard and a gun, enjoy being the naive one.

1- If it sounds too good to be true, it probably is.
2- There ain't no fool like an old fool.

Scenario VERY carefully before you agree to a thing, including meeting this unicorn

CATFISH, for crissake!

Give us a break ss.  If you are communicating with this "gal" on a site such as SFF or one of its' sister sites, please be aware that these sites are rife with fraudulent ads.  This person made initial contact with you, right?  Odds are, if you pursue this, that whomever you are communicating with is actually in some other country, might not even be a woman, and will eventually ask for funds to pay for airfare to your location, sent via Western Union.  This is too good to be true.  Run!!  If you are foolish enough to send money, the only further communication you can expect is a plea for more money.  

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Thank you for the positive advice.

And I thought who had lived every teen dream. I asked here because I thought a f-ckmonger board would have the experience I didn't.

I will trade you my interests in a Refridgerator company in Alaska?

It's super strange to be a virgin at 33. Intimacy issues? Social awkwardness? Batshit crazy parents? Or it's a lie. Run, Forest, run!!!!!

Look guys, I have talked with her on my cell, have seen her pictures, Skyped with here and e-mailed to an account that has her name on it. We have been doing all this since before the last winter holidays. There is no tiny eye trail on her number or photos. I have even Skyped with here mother, who gave the 3rd degree and they look like family.

Manti Teo 2

You're trying hard to convince yourself, and us, that this is for real, despite your own gut instincts.  What's the distance between?  Cut to the chase and go find out, like tomorrow.  Are you really intent on carrying on for another 4+ months like this before meeting, after investing 7+ already?  Geez man, grow up and get a life.  A real one in your own community.

OK I've read ll the dire warnings you've received.  And maybe I am too quick to assume people are telling the truth about themselves.  So do your due diligence.  Don't let her know where you live.  Meet her in public.  Or as one monger suggested, hop on a plane and go see her tomorrow and find out for yourself if she's a nutcase or scammer.  There's always the slim chance she is exactly what she claims to be.  But Dude, you gotta tell us all how this turns out!  Promise??

Not gonna get fucked, just fucked. This sounds so fishy. Be careful.  CR