Hi folks - would appreciate some advice.  I am 73 and really enjoy the company of beautuful, smart sexy woman.  It's nice at my age because I can so a appreciate the greatness of women of all ages.  But to the point.  I have the most wonderful organisms but I am  embarrassed when i shoot a blank.

To you smart medical types what might I do about this situation?

To providers committed to quality service, what is your reaction to guys like me?  I want great providers to  know how appreciated they are by me.  

Welcome comments

If you are enjoying yourself, getting stiff & having an orgasm, who would care what's in, or not in, the condom?  Hobby on!!!  Sorry if this was meant for Provider's only

I think they measure appreciation in units of 100.

I can have a dry orgasm. I tell my companion about it before hand, letting her know I still get full pleasure from the release. I do this so she isn't surprised by it, not out of embarrassment.

This doesn't happen to me but it's not unusual. Occasionally I am not able to orgasm. I simply explain to the lady it isn't anything she is or isn't doing, it just happens and she shouldn't be concerned. Do what another poster on this thread said explain to the provider and then enjoy.

Of course I was on a three day drunk and it was probably on my 15th girl of the weekend, lol

 
Fast forward twenty years and sometimes it happens on even my second ejaculation of the day and even my first  on days I drink too much.

 
Except for the obvious advice to stay as hydrated as possible, My only other advice would be not to worry about this as long as you still enjoy yourself. You might let your sexual partners know that this "normal" for you so they don't think they disappointed you.

Agree 100%. I'm 72 and sometimes I don't ejaculate. It just feels like I did, but it's a dry one or it just stays inside. Good providers not only understand but have seen this before. I just feel lucky to have the company of a nice pretty provider
and am happy TER returned to the USA. Using them carefully I have never had a bad provider and have only been in this game 4 years.

So I am a 20 or so year survivor of prostate cancer, diagnosed in my mid-50's.  Dry orgasms are fairly common with me, although occasionally I will excrete some clear fluid - particularly if I've been 'saving it up' for a while.  My treatment protocol was brachytherapy (radiation seeds) so on rare occasions (I think it's happened 2 or 3 times) I have actually ejaculated blood.  My oncologist explained that the seeds have weakened the walls of my urethra and that can cause blood vessels to tear during ejaculation contractions and it's nothing to be concerned about.

I share this because, as was mentioned before, I always explain this if I'm seeing someone new and I have never had anything but understanding and empathetic response from the provider.  They are always more than patient with me and for that I am eternally grateful.

With old farts like us, sometimes the valve in the urethra doesn't quite direct the flow of ejaculate down the tube, instead emptying it into the bladder.  One way to tell is by the cloudiness of your urine afterwards, although cloudiness can be caused by several things, so it's not completely indicative.

I had to have a foley's catheter when i was in the hospital a couple of years ago for a drug resistant bladder infection that came really close to killing me.  For a month afterwards, I would feel like I had great orgasms, but nada one spurting jizz.  My urologist told me "It's going to be a few more weeks until your can fill her mouth"  in those words.  He had me do kaegels(sp?) which reversed the problem.  

GA,  
I am so happy that with this crazy world , TER is back and so are you.
I have only been a hobbiest for 3 years when my wife of 36 years became totally disabled and as a true 70 year old newbie, have gotten the best advice on TER from you and your common sense suggestions.  
I always remember that the greatest sex organ is our brain not whether or not we cum. Your best advice as I remember, if you don't like the situation with a provider, "Move On".  
Don't sweat the small stuff, and it's all small stuff.
Thank You.

Yes, those cluster f*cks is why I love life LOL

One more reason to tell your lady friend(s) - if you are receiving a bbbj, they will keep going to "get some juice" even though you have ejaculated and are getting VERY sensitive/sore.  I'm 2 months from 80, had my second TURP in 2009 and have been "shooting blanks" (retroejaculating) ever since.  The mature ladies I see are ALWAYS very understanding.

Hobby on!!!

Four years ago I had a total prostatectomy for prostate cancer (Got it all).  Since then and of course no ejaculation but I have learned to experience a different kind of orgasm and can have several in a session for the first time in my life.  I always explain it to them before we get started  telling them: “ Nothing to spit , nothing to swallow, nothing to wash out of your hair. But if it is the taste of semen that makes your day you might be disappointed“  Most are fine with this.

As has been said before. Just explain it to the gal and then enjoy.

Whew!  This just happened to me for the first time & I thought at 73 I don't need this crap. I felt the pulsation and
the young lady felt them, yet when the condom was removed there wasn't a drop in it. Afew days later I found this
thread & it was a big relief to learn that this happens ocassionally. Threads like tese are very helpful. Thanks to all
who contributed.

I do have an irgasm and I do cum..at 70.. I guess I should feel lucky.. but i have noticed that i have ejaculate continues to ooze out for sometime afterwards.  It does not shoot out with the power i used to have.. aging is not for sissies

Once in a while, I accidentally end up on a porn site. Whatever happened to Peter North? So many of these guys seem to step back, take aim at a pretty face or open mouth and then -- sploot -- drop it on the floor from 3 inches away. Some of these guys actually think they can defy gravity and set up really low and think they can lob a shot 6 inches up and 2 inches over and all they produce is a dribble.  Sheesh. And they are supposed to be PROs.

When was his hay day, the 80s?

Now-a-days the cum shot videos are using those obviously fake cum ejectors that are so fake looking that it turns me soft.

There ought to be a law.