I know many factors cum into play. Time, Resources,Age, ATF or New availability etc. Does desire for companionship over rule common sense? Do we often think with the smaller head?
Makes me think of Kong, beauty and the beast !

I had blow outs of vacations with a lot of activity in a few days.  Other times a few months.  I was averaging once a month for several years recently.  
HV

twice a month, sometimes 3, sometimes only 1.  No set number.  I am pretty careful in doing my research, have a long list of to-do's.  I like to set up dates about a week ahead of time.  My local fave I see once a month.  Like to see a new one every so often, but have others I repeat with too.

Have a long gap in my reviews since I was a moderator most of last year and could not write them.  Now that I'm only a host, I can write them now, just have to see a new lady.  This week is a repeat visit.

Swim

I recently had to postpone due to a health issue as well as a personal endeavor in helping another. This afforded remorse as well as a good head beating on the wall....my date is one of the best providers in town and my ATF, yet sometimes common sense and another's needs come before one's own. Bottom line...it still hurts......ouch!

.......frequency however is always driven by time allowed........"if you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with".

and that is only three or four times a year. Everyone once in while I do make an exception and have a date with a local provider.

the little head will always let the big head know when he is ready..you just cant argue with mother nature..

I see my ATF 3 - 4 times a month, depending on her touring schedule. I occasionally play with others, but not often due to the scarcity of good local options. Yes, the little head does most of the thinking.

but some times the little one loses the argument to the piggy bank.

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I do like to hobby at least once a week.

the piggy bank rules all..rule no.1..you cant play if you cant pay..both heads would agree on that..

how often I can get away to play.

At age 71, I realize my sex drive could disappear suddenly.  Accordingly, I try to have sex at least twice a week.  My goal is to have my money run out before I become limp (lol).  Cialis has allowed me to maintain this schedule.  Sometimes I may not have an orgasm, but such a failure does not diminish my enjoyment.  I just got back from a trip with my ATF and was able to successfully have sex three straight nights.  I only hope that, if this same question is asked next year, I will be able to give the same answer!!

I have been hobbying once a week for the last several months, but I need to curb that down to twice a month due to financial concerns, darn it!

Two Vegas vacations, Christmas (lots of specials), family vacation (I get one day off), birthday, and fathers day.  Finding time otherwise is too difficult.