A lot of dialog on this topic is directed at providers who do commit this but how about the clients who do the same.

I just posted on the Fla Board on a "Newbie" that blew me off!!! I was dressed ready..candles lit ...music on..make up done..and declined other appts..that came in... because the appt was confirmed with this Gent!!! ..I take my appts seriously..(well the booking process..that is..)

Yes hurts both  the provider...(financial loss) and it really pisses ya off...and ya wonder..why ..how come me???
I respect others time!!!
I value each appt!!
but true...Cancellations do not happen to often but it seems like these "newbies" do not know the "ETIQUETTE" on how every thing works!!!    GRRRRRRRR..
Same day cancellations  are a "deal breaker"!!!

 
Thanks for Posting "Cooper 80'

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a person that would be visiting for the first time. Fortunately, I have some very nice mini-vacationer's that stop by to play so my exposure to nsnc's is fairly limited. Once or twice a year I might get a nsnc...maybe...Lucky me!

That said, it REALLY REALLY SUCKS when you get all ready and you're sitting on the couch waiting because you can't actually start anything except maybe glance at a magazine...and watch the clock - and watch the clock - and watch the clock- and then decide that you've been stood up.  

So then you undo all the things you've done to get ready. AND you hadn't taken the 'good' appointment ,that you would have LOVED to see because you really enjoy mini-vacations with him. So now you are sad. and mad. You make the nsnc a dns. (unless there is a plausable explanation later on, which HAS happened and then hey, that's life)

AND THEN.... you have to brush it off and get busy doing something else!

there are time wasters on both sides of the fence..

..... from the Newbie Board.  Oh wait... it looks like I wrote it.  Well, how bout that, huh?!  

 
Anyhoo... here's the part of my post that pertains specifically to the No-Show issue.

 

NO-SHOW/NO-CALL (often referred to as NCNS or NSNC): This means that you have set a date with the lady, she gave you her location information/directions and then..... you simply didn't show up.  Nor did you call to cancel.  Thus, no-show/no-call.    
 
It cannot be stressed enough that this situation should be avoided, if at all possible.    
 
She might contact you to inquire as to your whereabouts when it's past your appointment time and she may even do so repeatedly; there also might be total radio-silence from her; or she could go completely off-the-wall, call the men in white coats, BAT SHIT CRAZY on you!    
Board stalking, black-listing, spamming, invasions into your work/personal life..... while not condoned (especially by me!) are reactions/retaliations that HAVE happened.  
 
Yes, the crazies among provider ranks can and have done those things when receiving a cancellation notice, a failure to follow up on an appointment request, and/or seemingly no reason whatsoever.  
A crazy person doesn't really need a reason to.... well... go crazy.    
 
If you are completely unable to contact her to cancel (which she will likely not believe) prior to your date, please contact her afterwards to explain the situation and apologize.*  Offering or conceding to a cancellation/no-show fee is a decision which is entirely up to you.  I personally feel that offering this is the right thing to do, but others' opinions will differ.    Please bear in mind that no matter how legitimate your reasons for not showing up were, she may very well not believe you, despite any evidence you produce.    
She could still take any of the aforementioned actions; even if you pay her full fee and successfully keep a future date with her, she might have already reported you as a NC/NS or will do so to any ladies who contact her for a reference afterwards.  
 
 
*Unless, of course, she has already flooded your email/voicemail box with unhinged/threatening sounding messages, blasted your info across message boards, or has in any other way chosen to fly her BSC-flag for you (and all the world) to see.    

 

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I always show up, on time, with the correct change, and a smile on my face. Jesus, why would I cancel sex with a hot lady? I also always send a courtesy 'I'm on my way' email just before I leave. In fact, I usually arrive in the area 30-60 minutes early, and hang out at a local haunt before the session just to play it safe. The two times I had car trouble and traffic issues, I was so early I had time to resolve the issues, and still make it on time. Although I did stay in contact with them, again out of courtesy.  

Oh that the ladies were as conscientious and dependable as me. That's why I usually only party with atfs, never toftt, and rarely reach out to a new lady. All atfs have to be busy, and I have to be hornier than hell for me to try a new lady. It does happen on occasion, but it's no big deal to me if I have to let a time slot go to wait for a dependable lady.

I was on my way to an outcall...dang tire blew on the interstate...my date came and picked me up and we had the best time ever LOL Will never forget

I feel the same way, I have never NCNS

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