There's definitely something irresistibly attractive about a man who has embraced his years with confidence and style. Quiet strength, a charming smile and the kind of sophistication that only life experience can create that along his silver hair and effortless charisma make him handsome and incredibly sexy.  And sometimes, he even ages better than a woman. For example, think about male actors such as Patrick Dempsey, James Marsden and Paul Rudd.  Isn't it remarkable?  I love it!

the same about women. Those of us in the 60s group feel we are aging quite nicely and feeling sexier than ever.

.... and that is Dempsey who is 60.  I'm not trying to knock down your argument as I think you are correct, probably just used the wrong sample size!  lol  Many women think I look great for being over 60 myself!   Even though I don't have silver hair.    Bald is the new silver!!!