Two types one "do not touch my butt" or the guy that lifts his leg so high and wide its like he is expecting a pap smear......and then you have the guys that want strap-ons or a digit up their arse......I did not see many women say how they feel about anal maybe the men will be more forth coming as to why or why not they enjoy this type of playtime ..... once when I was very new had a guy bring in a large bag with a huge rubber dildo over a foot long and I was like really you want me to stuff that puppy up you I was afraid to hurt him shocking but it fit LOL then told me he just got out of prison LOL explained a lot LOL true story strap-ons can be fun with the right guy its kinda a power trip playing the guy role .....again it has to be a guy that is VERY clean and as a provider you must keep your nails very short as not to hurt anyone.......I would rather do the poking then recieving anyday { I promise to find lighter topics after this one just wanted to see mens thoughts on this it will be interesting to see how it compares to the folks in AZ always interesting to see the difference between the age groups
A nice prostrate massage is always enjoyable for me.... anything other than a finger and I tighten up like the credit market... LOL
others just have never tried it. The ones who do ask are experienced and come prepared "squeaky clean" while the ones who are just curious may not know what to expect. I am always prepared with all types of toys from little to large and a pink leather strap-on. I cover all my toys with condoms so clean up is quick and easy and the best part of all, I sneak it off without any embarrassment if something is left behind.
I will use a finger tickle to see if a man likes stimulation there. Once I see an interest I will ask to break the ice.
Kisses Haley
I like a prostate massage too. Definitely not into anything bigger than your finger.
I do like to be rimmed and I do respond to a little tickle as HaleyOrlando describes.
The anus has a large number of nerve endings which makes stimulation of the area pleasurable for men and women that free their minds a little bit and relax.
In the case of men, we also have the prostate that can be stimulated and provide an intense orgasm, either on its own or in conjunction with other activities. I always enjoy stimulation from a lady's finger or two, and consider it a sign that she's a knowledgeable lover. I've never tried anything larger than a finger, though the right woman could probably talk me into it. I've seen a couple Tantra providers that gave a great male G-spot session, which I thoroughly enjoyed.
Rimming is also an incredible sensation and one of those rare pleasures most of us experience all too infrequently.
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Everyone is different. The main thing I do is to let my clents know that I am open to anal play. Not on me. Let me make that very clear! LOL But I am most happy to do anal play of all kinds with my guys. I have found that a lot of guys are shy about it. There is no need to be. Men have a prostate. It feels good when it gets massaged. I say if it feels good, DO IT!
I also offer strap-on play. I have several strap-ons in different sizes. Some vibrate. Some don't. They key to strap on play is a steady, slow insertion. Use LOTS of lube! Then once the strap-on is completely inserted, hold it in for a minute to allow the muscles to loosen and relax. I used to do anal. So I know how it feels when you initially get past that sphincter muscle. Once you get past that, it is usually much more comfortable.
I personally do not enjoy anything up my ass. I have tried it many times. It's just not my thing. Some external play can be enjoyable. However, if I feel you trying to poke your finger inside the out door, I will stop you! LOL Honestly, I feel if your tongue is going to be at work down there, I prefer it be on my lips or clit. I get a lot more out of that than any licking you will do on my anus.
As with anything else, communication is the key. Don't be shy about asking for what you want and/or expressing your dislikes.
One final and most important thing... if you are into anal play, prepare your body for that type of session. We all know what to do! Wash your ass very well. Also, always shower upon arrival. Even if you showered 30 minutes beforehand. It is a must for you to shower again when you arrive. The worst thing for me is a guy who hikes his ass up in the air when he is not clean. It makes for an awkward and uncomfortable session.
Just my .02! Betty xoxo
It can be a taboo subject but sensual prostate message is very erotic. One of the attractions is the ladies who will accommodate tend to make it a fun adventure and know how to have a good time. Any adventure with a lady is fun and why I like the hobby. I wish more providers would mention it in their profile. And define who's ass it is!