I always do a review and even if in the unlikely event it was not as I would have hoped I try very hard to be objective-maybe the chemistry was wrong-whatever-I have rarely had a circumstance though that would warrant a bad review-I perform a lot of due diligence-cross check reviews and reviewers-check various websites, look for commentary that has been posted, and I strongly feel that takes away a lot of the things that could cause one to have a poor experience...So yes-I do reviews and I try to keep it in perspective and it matters not to me if the gal has a hundred reviews or 3 !!
If you already have VIP status do you Tend not to review a lady or if she has many reviews already in place do you feel she does not need yours? Some only review a good session do you or a bad one also? How many of you want to be whitelisted? Or does it not matter......providers do you want reviews or are you fine without them ? For myself it seems when a review go's up it makes the phone ring which is good but most clients I see do not review anymore is it because it takes too much time ? I was just curious as to why you would or would not write a review ......thanks in advance
I will only post a review after a second date, and then only if the lady requests it... Must be why I only have one review 
I would, however, break that self imposed rule for a really bad experience...
I write reviews... But I do not write ones for ladies I have seen before. Or for BAD ones, I live by the moto if you can't say anything nice do not say anything at all. There are some (slap me) i just did not have enough time for (life happened and I wanted it to be a wonderful review because she was so nice).. then after a while it did not seem appropriate. So I ask if it has been a while, how long is too long to write a review?
if a lady asks for one i will review.
if the meeting reveals a turn off that i did not encounter in my research, i won't review, my bad. i would review a rip off or bad behavior. at the request of some clients i removed one poor review from my profile and it was a mistake. without that poor review as documentation she went on a vicious backchannel campaign of falsehoods. so i believe that a poor review should be left to stand as insurance.
i won't review if i'm traveling. first traveling time i couldn't... it's a long story. since then i've decided that keeping my travel itinerary UTR is a good thing.... another long story.
whitelists are nice.
Most of my gentlemen want to be whitelisted but they don't give me reviews. So, its a give and take, an occassional review is needed to keep the clients updated.
I don't want an abundance of them but I feel a new one monthly would be helpful just to let the guys know that I am still givng excellent services.
I review every lady I see. It does take time but I will usually get it submitted within a week of the session.
I like being white listed. But I've never really given it much priority.
I always do a review and even if in the unlikely event it was not as I would have hoped I try very hard to be objective-maybe the chemistry was wrong-whatever-I have rarely had a circumstance though that would warrant a bad review-I perform a lot of due diligence-cross check reviews and reviewers-check various websites, look for commentary that has been posted, and I strongly feel that takes away a lot of the things that could cause one to have a poor experience...So yes-I do reviews and I try to keep it in perspective and it matters not to me if the gal has a hundred reviews or 3 !!
I review almost all first time meetings but I usually check with the provider first to make sure that its ok with her. Many of mine, however, are repeats and I don't do a second unless the woman requests it. TER only allows one review of a provider to be listed at any one time and eliminates the first and is only accepted if something is different. I do think, however, that as a relationship grows the experience can grow and a second or more reviews would be useful both to the provider and to prospective clients. I think of reviews as the best way I know of to get a good fit and I feel I've been very fortunate. I really like being White Listed, I think of it as a gesture of appreciation.
I also only write reviews after first asking my companion if she would like me to. I also do lots of research before each date and have never had a bad hobby experience so i never been in the position of having to write a bad review. Other peoples reviews have been very helpful to me in chosing a companion that I think I will connect with and feeling that connection is for me critical to having enjoyable sex. I write reviews to share my experience with other men and, if it helps, to bring attention to my companion so that others can seek her company. One woman wrote to tell me that after what I had written, her phone didn't stop ringing and to thank me.
What do I try to write? How do I rate a session? Difficult questions.
I still can't quite feel comfortable rating a woman or the intimacy that we have shared as I would a movie or a new car. The best I can do is to try to describe my feelings about the time we have shared. Did she make me feel comfortable and at ease in her presence? Did she stir in me an emotional desire that translated into a stiffening of the right place and a physical wanting? Was she skilled in leading to my sexual fulfillment and an exciting finish. Did i sense her desire for sexual fulfillment as well? Was she genuine or a good actress? I hope that I have been sufficiently astute and articulate enough to capture those thoughts in my reviews.
Ideally we should not need reviews. But from a practical point of view, they have been helpful to me and I hope that the reviews that I have written have been helpful to others, both the men who read my words as well as the women about whom I have written.
A bit long but I hope this makes sense.
After returning to the “Hobby” from a hiatus (15+ Months) I made a personal decision to NOT Review Ladies I could not give at least an 8 (“went the extra mile”) for Performance. My thinking was that I pretty much only see Ladies who receive a preponderance of 8’s and above for “Performance” and I did NOT want to hurt a Lady’s “earnings,” when in fact it may be as much, if not more, my fault as hers. (“YMMV”) Otherwise, I Review almost ALL of the Ladies I see.
My only exception to NOT reviewing a Lady with a “Performance Score” below 8, is if I believe the Lady is somehow dishonest, which has only happened once in these past 30 months of Reviews. Additional, if a Lady asks me NOT to Review her, I will refrain from doing so, regardless of how I would have rated her “Performance.” That request has happened on several occasions.
Of course, this “Personal Policy” leaves me with in excess of two dozen “Unreviewed Ladies.”
because at one time my personal information was shared by TER
I would feel like a hippocrit to not do so because I've gained so much from other people's reveiws.
My policy has been to write reviews for those girls that I have seen on multiple occasions and where performance and the overall experience has remained consistent and high. Fortunately, since returning to the hobby about three years ago, I have not had a terrible experience or been ripped off in any way (for which I thank TER). I found whitelisting to be helpful when I first started back, but after three or four, I am now indifferent.
Dear Victoria:
In reference to reviews a good question to ask yourself is how many new clients would I get in a month and how are they being referred to you? Once you take a poll and see that they are seeing you because of your well chronicled exploits, then you know that you are accruing business because of how well chronicled you are and that is another way that world travels because of your reputation. However once word does get out then also you have a reputation to maintain because for some woman one bad review in a small city can kill a girl as opposed to a big city where people tend to think for themselves.
With respect to those who have been in the business for a while like yourself, then reviews tend to be less of an impact on you because now you have a faithful constituency of men who patronize you and you can count on them pretty frequently because you have built up you business over a period of time. At this point your like a company whose reputation is a solid as a rock and because people who frequent escorts will tend to stick with solid reliable women they can count on just like they would a mechanic for their cars.
Henceforh in the seminal stages of your career reviews are highly necessary. As you build you business over time and like yourself whose has become a national brand who is a skill and reliable veteran of social,romantic and libidinal affairs men who know will stick with what is proven to be soothing.
Loved what you had to say and you are so right at this stage of the game reviews are not that important having said that ...its like getting a good report card for a job well done and it does make you feel good ...like another provider stated once a month to stay current really does help to let the guys know your still kicking it.....and for whatever reason when a good review go's up the guys start calling .......
I usually submit reviews after first dates. I always do if it was a good experience (which is usually the case with good research) and the lady wants reviews. The rare occasions where I don't submit a review is when the lady delivers as promised, but the chemistry just isn't there. I won't lie on a review, but won't submit one where a lower score may be as much my fault or personal taste as anything she did. I only see ladies with 8+ scores or equivalent write-ups, so if she is obviously making a good effort but we aren't clicking, I'm certainly not going to write anything to hurt her. The same is true for looks. I've seen a few ladies with a string of 10s for looks who didn't come close to some other 9s and 10s I've seen, but since that is so subjective, I choose not to submit a review. In my most recent case, she wrote asking for a review and I was upfront saying that I would be glad to give her honest raves for a performance 10, but could only give her an 8 for looks when she had a lot of 9s and 10s. She decided she didn't want the review and I was good with that since she is very cute, just not a 10 for me.
I've resubmitted reviews on a few ATFs after several visits. Sometimes because the experience just got that much better, and sometimes just because they are awesome ladies who hadn't had a review recently. I know I don't look much past 3-4 months in my research because so many ladies without recent reviews have left the business. Unfortunately, the lack of recent reviews can also be the case with really great ladies with a bunch of regulars, so I like to be sure they get a recent review to get their email humming or phone ringing.
If I get ripped off, or have any bad experience due to intentional behavior or dishonesty, of course I'll submit that. My only poor reviews so far were due to no-shows (and no call) and one perpetually, extremely late, lady. Both eventually made up for the bad behavior and I submitted new, positive reviews.
If a lady has a lot of reviews, and my experience is similar, I will usually not bother writing a review. However, if a lady asks, then I am more than willing. Like in your case "it seems when a review go's up it makes the phone ring", I am happy to write a review, and wait until you ask to post it (subject to the TER time limit).
Whitelisting: I prefer not to have such info available publicly. I know, there is little difference between people finding my reviews vs. lady saying I'm ok. I just prefer the discretion of RS2K and P411. Who knows, maybe a ticked off SO starts calling the ladies who whitelisted me. Having whitelisted me implies the lady will give me a referral.
.....I do try. I am always slow at getting reviews done....my fault completely.
I will always ask the lady if it is OK for me to submit a review.
Pat J
of spending time with; unless, she requests that I do not write a review.
I have had ladies I have seen for multiple times request a new review so their name goes to the top of the list for their city, at least until it gets moved down as more ladies get reviewed.
I do not mind at all if a gent posts a review for me.Sometimes,when guys are researching a lady and sees she has not had any recent reviews it might make him a little skeptical on contacting the lady.
Reviews help out a lady as well as the community also when a guy searches in a particular city if the lady has been recently reviewed she will show up on the first page of the search.
Some guys have said posting reviews is a pain I appreciate the gents who have taken their time to post a review for me.I also agree with Victoria when a new review is posted it does help with business.
I whitelist select gents that I have seen who I would have no problem with seeing again.
I have gents ask for whitelisting but not too many.
Many gents that contact me who are TER members but do not post reviews or have whitelisting.
Good topic Victoria as I have wondered about this myself.
then i would be more likely to write a review than for someone for whom everything has already been said. I wrote reviews when I re-entered the hobby following a long hiatus and after a while didn't see the point. If it benefits the Provider, I have no problem putting my thoughts down. I think a good Provider can hint that she would appreciate a review without being offensive about it.
Since I became a mod, I can no longer write them. However, I have not seen many new-to-me providers in that time, so reviews have not been a problem. I did tell a couple of new dates that I could not write a review since I was a TER moderator. Neither of them seemed to be concerned, as they already had a sufficient number of good reviews in their profile.
Swim