If you meet a second time with a lady that performed at a 10 level, is the second meeting 9 or less?

Ok.. I don't know who my once in a lifetime is, because my lifetime isn't over, but assuming that I have met my once in a lifetime and the only reason she hasn't been classified as such is because I haven't died yet, then second, third, ad infinitum visits that are equal to, or surpass the first visit are once in a lifetime experiences...

I think I've had that experience, but in order to be sure, I gotta die... And I am in no particular hurry to do that..

Some times a gal makes me feel like I died and went to heaven, so technicaally the next time we are together is another lifetime for me.

And visa versa I think. Every meeting is not the same, at least I would hope it isnt.  Even the way you view her appearance may change a bit.  There are so many variables that go into a date.  What works one time may not the next or something else is even better.

Second time around, even the same experience, performed equally well, will seem  less special.  But it's not the lady's performance that has changed, it's your perception.

Sometimes a lady will wow you the first date and then as time go's by  she takes you more for granted  kinda like in real life the newness wears off  .....I have heard from several clients that had a great 10 experience the first date and by the third date it was not so much.....a true AFT  is one that always brings her A game each date and never gets lazy or takes you for granted  .....we providers can get too comfortable  with time  it just happens  that is why men can have several AFT's it keeps us providers on our toes  to know when we are slipping......

Does the ax swing both ways?  Do you give us a 10 performance because we are on our best behavior at our first meeting?  Do we become complacent and it reflects back to us?

Does a good client bring his 'A' game to every date?  Do we show up when all we want to do is relieve ourselves and we don't really care with who?

I'd like to think I'll always respect you enough to always bring my best game.  So how should I discreetly let you know if I felt your performance was slipping?  I certainly would not want to hurt your feelings, and I damned sure don't want a lot of drama if I word it hurtfully.

The newness of a lady with everything she does feels over the top. It may not be all that special in the realm of what she does, how she performs and the way she looks on a regular basis. From what I can see where i'm sitting your most exciting time is always the first time you meet a lady. Her performance may be the the same the second time around but in your mind what you felt before has been fired up so much that sometimes those expectations are tough to meet.

Does it happen that you saw her on a good day the first time and today she's off...Could be. Are you the first person she is seeing ? this might make things change. Is someone on their best behavior when they first meet...Oh yes But I think that is just common nature.

I have friends I have seen for years. Do I take them for granted ? Certainly not what I want to do but i'm sure with comfort level comes a more relaxed less perfect mirror image of what I was like when we first met and neither are they.

Kisses Haley

My experiences, with my ATF, as hard as it seems to be possible, gets better with each encounter. With a true ATF, the closeness, and chemistry can grow beyond PFP, and be a true friendship. That is when it becomes special.

It could be both parties......  having been around awhile I have had many long term clients  and sometimes they can become the husband you never wanted....all kidding aside  it really does go both ways as far as keeping the excitement alive .....the only difference we are paid  very well to make sure  to  take care of the clients  and the biggest thing some of us tend to forget is good customer service ....the men are doing "us" a favor by choosing to spend their hard  earned money for our time...... not the the reverse.....like any job  you should put forth your best effort