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Quote from law professor:

"...courts value highly the sex lives of old people if they are male and wealthy."

Anything about that statement sound familiar?

Most men miss the deep connection of their spouses that sex brings. I wish they would rethink research for women's needs also. It's a team not a competition!

So much truth in this.  "Most men miss the deep connection of their spouses that sex brings. I wish they would rethink research for women's needs."  

Sex may be the pinacle of intimacy...  but I miss the touching, hugging, kissing, cuddling with a loved one, also.  Unfortunately I have belatedly realized that my own SO does not & never has had these needs during 25 years we've been together.   Providers can only offer limited substitutions.  

I am actually leaning more towards FBSM because of the greater touching.

The good thing is Eastern medicine is making it's way out of the shadows. Tantra, Nuru, Reiki and the like are picking up speed here in the states. Hopefully in the near future we can fully embrace these ancient practices and benefit from it. I appreciate the deep connection I feel with the people I get to explore this with, it's very gratifying!