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"A 1.5 hour session with an absolutely excellent provider...wonderful time" doesn't sound depressing. I have taken up visiting an incredible lady in a nearby city each month.  The 1.5 hours seem like bliss and yeah it would be nice to have a few more orgasms but how bad can it be to spend an hour & a half in bed with a playful willing companion? Wish I had gotten older sooner.

Yes, you are right.  I had a wonderful time.

It was 2 hours with an exceptional provider.  We have a good rapport and she's the playful type, so we had a running gag about who would "win" with the most Os.  We both knew it would be her; she comes almost by looking at her. Ok, that's an exaggeration, but she's only one of two women I've met who can come only from nipple play. And she did... and through many other ways.  

Anyway, near the end of the date I got real close to #2.  I really thought I'd do it, but time ran out and so she "won" 6-1.  (Maybe 7-1, I kinda lost count.  Some were of the elongated "riding the wave" type so it was hard to keep track.)  We kidded about it the next day in follow-up emails.  

She didn't seem bothered by it (she knows how old I am) and I had a great time, and she said she did too.  So who cares?

Anyway, one thing about being of this age is that we likely know many ways to please a woman.  

and even then, I'm often content to finish the time cuddling or with a massage if she's good at it and up for it.

 
Learn to enjoy the ride.

I only do 90 minute or 2 hour sessions and I'm a one shot guy. I have an injury that has made it difficult to cum.
But, I am having a blast and most of the time I do.

Last week, I had a 90 minute session with one of my absolute favorites. It was a constant fuck fest for the whole time. She came many times and I got to the end of the time, and did not cum. I told her that it wasn't going to happen, stressing that her performance was amazing. She understands my condition.

I had so much fun from the start to the end, but I had gotten too desensitized to cum.  

That doesn't happen very often, but it does. I will definitely be going back to her,very soon, because she is a wonderful woman and so much fun.

My point is that I have to accept the way my body works now . If I didn't , I would be disappointed and would give this up. Then I'd miss out on all the fun.
I've had this challenge for the last 6 years and I laugh when I hear guys lamenting not getting a second pop.  

Just have fun guys

I used to be able to finish 2x w/o even pulling out after the first. But that was 30 years ago. Now, I'm happy to have one in an hour. Condoms have also wreaked havoc on my ability to finish. Most of the time, I can finish only during BBJ or BHJ. I always book an hour to an hour and a half. I could have one finish in that period. But I also love cuddling, kissing and caressing and chatting with a beautiful young lady during that period. I will continue to do so.

... I have been with maybe 60 providers, and for all this time, I just assumed that I would never get it done twice.  So I have been arranging my one shot to take place at the end of the session.

 
A couple weeks ago, I got quite the shock.  First of all, I was kind of pissed to find out that this provider only did CBJ.  This was in Europe - no TER.   Her ad was misleading.

 
Anyway, maybe 45 minutes in, she managed to get me off in cowgirl, which was a surprise, since I almost never cum in a condom.  Then we are laying around talking and her hands start to wander.  On goes another condom, and she starts this aggressive CBJ, which I thought for sure was going nowhere.  But I was wrong, as she coaxed a second shot out of me.  I have never in my life been able to cum with a CBJ.   Until then.   This was a 90 minute session.

 
So don’t give up.  Maybe with the right girl, you can still get it done.  

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In the hobby, I used to figure on two pops in an hour, no problem back when I was early 60's.  Now late 60's, I can still always have a first pop with a condom or BBBJ, but second one is not at all guaranteed and needs to be a pretty aggressive HJ.   The latest change for me lately was starting Flowmax a few months ago; very little semen produced, but the O is more intense (testing out the equipment myself).  Next I'm gonna try it out with a pro and see how it goes.  

One other thing is that all I can think about is sex these days.  It's like I'm 16 years old again.  Has this happened to any of you guys?

Last month is recently.  5 years is distant past.

So, vitamin V has kept me in the game, and lately, I find Cialis even better, because it has a much longer half life in the body, so the effects last longer, and this makes the "when to take it" timing issue much less critical. In fact, I find that taking Cialis the night before works well, because any side effects seem to have dissipated, but the desired effect remains.

Also, Viagra often causes difficulty in achieving orgasm, and that's true for me to some extent, especially on a 2nd round. Cialis doesn't seem to have that effect, at least not as much.

So, I've kind of switched to Cialis.