As a gentleman in mid-fifties just wondering what age providers most older guys prefer?
And why??

Mature--46 & up
MILF--41-45
HOT--36-40
SEXY--31-35
Daughter--26-30
Young--21-25

Disclaimer...
the heading for each age group are not meant to mean anything as all ages could be considered ,
sexy, hot & milf...

you describe, including one under 21 (my first).  Now, I tend to see ladies mostly that are over 30.  However, I will not limit myself to a certain age group if I am particularly interested in seeing a specific provider.

Swim

My most sensuous and unforgettable exeperiences are with the 40+ ladies. They have that something extra, that intangible,
that only comes from experience. They're skilled, obviously. But they're also comfortable in their own skin, know who they are, and know how to please an older and respectful gentleman. It may take more than one session to ease into that comfort zone but once you do and the communication lines are wide open you can expect an unforgetable and lucious experience. I can't bang all night. I don't need a lady who can suck the chrome off a trailer hitch. And my days of multiple pops are long gone. Give me the warm and soft tenderness and passion of a 40+ gal. Nothin' against the young 'uns but I have a difficult time relating. They can be fun though!

Thank you so much for your appreciation of mature providers. Age is only a number. The first time I set foot in a gym I was 42. I started in this hobby when I was 46 years old, wanting more fun and excitement than my 9-5 career. I honestly didn't think anyone would respond to my ad. I was pleasantly surprised and overwhelmed by the response and haven't had to advertise since.  The year I turned 50 was difficult. It was hard to even say the word FIFTY! For my birthday my mother gave me a book about menopause and a coffee cup that said "50 is 5 perfect 10s". LOL! I have learned to focus on being the best that I can be and stop focusing on the numbers. It's how you feel about yourself, not your age. I think you would be surprised if all providers posted there true age on their profiles.

I primarily like 35 and up.  The oldest I have seen said she was 59.  She may have been older but very hot !!!

I draw the line at (claiming to be ) 40. I once saw a woman that claimed to be 40 who was probably 60. She was fine, but I was put off by the deception and didn't enjoy the session.

I've seen girls in their 20s, it feels silly.

Having been with providers in their 20's, 30's, 40's and beyond, I'd have to say that the older the provider, the better the experience has been for me.  Age seems to equate with degrees of how comfortable a woman is with her body.  The more comfortable she is with her body, the more adventurous and sensuously captivating she tends to become.  The Ronnie McDowell song from the 80's comes to mind:

Older women, are beautiful lovers
 Older women, they understand
 I've been around some, and I have discovered
 That older women know just how to please a man

Everybody seems to love those younger women
 From eighteen on up to twenty-five
 Well I love 'em too, but I'm tellin' you
 Learnin' how to really love, takes a little time

Older women, are beautiful lovers
 Older women, they understand
 I've been around some, and I have discovered
 That older women know just how to please a man

So baby, don't you worry about growin' older
 Those young girls ain't got nothin' on you
 'Cause it takes some livin', to get good at givin'
 And givin' love is just where you could teach them a thing or two

Older women, are beautiful lovers
 Older women, they understand
 I've been around some, and I have discovered
 That older women know just how to please a ma

I'm 81 and I have not seen very many providers in 2 1/2 years in the hobby, I  repeat with the ones who feel comfortable with me
2 are 28 and 29  
2 in low 40's (40 and 42)
2 are in the 50's and one of them is 52 and the other is 50 plus and the only one I saw only once

Anything  younger than late twentys  I don't feel comfortable with.

…there is no way you look 50.  I remember when you told me your age and I could not believe it.  You could pass for 40 any day of the week.  I can't wait to get back to the twin cities.

…but I have to admit, that I tend to gravitate to those over 30 most of the time. It is rare to find a under 30 gal that you really connect with but they are out there and I've had the pleasure of spending time with a few of them.

My favorite age is the one I am with. My youngest was 18 and the oldest was 70. Each one brought something special to the games.

...I've seen all the age ranges, but most appreciate the ladies who are closest to my age.  There is a connection with ladies who are near my age that no 20-year-old, no matter how gorgeous she may be, can fill.

Just my 2 cents.  Flame away if you feel the need to..

I don't have any problem finding them in civilian life, but there ain't no way that I'm getting a 21-30 year old to have anything to do with me other than for p4p. And, it makes me feel 20 years younger for a little while! lol

P.S. I suspect that many of the ones' who say they are 26-30 are really 30-35, and I find they are much more secure in their bodies than the younger ones. I just love watching a women who feels secure in her body; who can parade it around like she has a gown on that she'd wear on the red carpet somewhere, without the slightest blush!

I've had some good experiences with 20-somethings, but for many reasons already given, my experience has usually been much better with the more mature ladies. My worst experiences were with two different early 20 girls who clearly didn't enjoy being with an older guy. On the other hand, the connection and full on GFE has been great with with women 30 and older, and best with late thirties and up. Besides the maturity and life experiences those ladies bring, I'm pretty sure basic biology has most women's libido peaking as they approach the later child bearing years. They certainly have a good handle on knowing what they like!

One of my ATFs is now in her mid 50s and is drop dead gorgeous and looks 15-20 years younger than she is. Another one claims to be older than that, but I have trouble believing her sexy, toned body belongs to someone pushing 60!

I see only ladies whose age begins with at least a 3 and generally gravitate to 40's and 50's.  As others have mentioned I find the ladies in that age bracket to be sexy, sensuous, and sensitive to the wants of this older guy.  I don't get the feeling of a "let's get this over with so I can move on" attitude.  They go slow, tend to be patient, and appreciate my similar approach toward them.  Give me a couple of hours with a mature lady and I'm a happy camper.  So thanks to all of you ladies who are willing to spend time with an older guy like me!!!

I certainly enjoy gentlemen closer to my age the most. We have so much more in common, similar life experiences, and similar sexual preferences. There is nothing like a guy who appreciates what is between my ears as well as what is between my legs!! LOL  

I also understand the needs and wants of a more mature man, the special attention they deserve.

Smooch!

Lea

Wish I lived in DC or surrounding area.

...To date I haven't actually seen a lady that was that young but close. I've seen at least couple of 23 year old providers. Still seeing one of them though she isn't 23 any longer.  I do tend to gravitate toward more mature ladies but right now my favorites are either in there 20's or 40's. Only one is mid 30's.

I don't have any issue with a provider being younger than my daughters. My possible candidates would be small considering my age and my daughters ages.

All the good things said about mature providers in our discussions here are very important to me. I do find from time to time some of the younger ladies have these attributes. That's why I continue to see them.

.... it's a mix where have normally see women older than me (as in 35 & up) but feel I have a more a maturer demeanor where I lack in age and the other half normally see ladies on the more younger end (earlier 20's to early 30's) anyways.

I used to go for the younger gals as I think it was a way to re-create my youth.  If I wanted an older one, I'd stay home.   I changed my thinking after finding the credibilty factor with some younger ones being light years behind the older ladies.  The only NCNS's I ever experienced were from younger gals and that happened on numerous occasions.  What a PITA it is to take time off, pop a pill, get horned up and cleaned up, drive for whatever miles, try to make contact as ageed upon, wait around for a phone call that doesn't happen, and then drive home pissed off.   As a result, I don't seek them out any more.  BTW, I've never had that happen with a mature lady.    

With maturiity comes this sense of credibility and consideration for someone else's time and money.  Younger folks, and not just females, seem to have more of a 'I - me - mine' attitude that hopefully goes away with age and experience, both in the hobby and in life

... more grown up ladies who have been in the business for a while know how valuable their good reputation is.

They would never squander the good will it has taken them years to earn with a NCNS.

I like swimming with over 40 crowd. The ladies are more experienced in mouth-to-mouth.

I'm new (very new) and have seen a woman in her late 20's, a couple in their 30's, 40's and over 45. Maybe it is just being new to this and just really a little overwhelmed by how fantastic this all is to me but they have all been great experiences and each one has brought a little something different and special to the occasion. I haven't seen someone in her early 20's yet, and after reading this thread I would be hesitant in going there...

I am in my late fifties, and originally was in the late thirties to forties range, when it came to provider selection.  Being with someone who could be younger than my daughter freaked me out, as I thought there was no way that such an age gap could ever work.  For quite some time, the best, most compatible experience was with a lady in her early forties.  After some time, I expanded the range to as young as 24.  I have now seen a few ladies in their late twenties.  All experiences had left me pretty content and feeling good about my choices.  

Then this past weekend, I spent some time with a 28 year old provider.  This girl took the experience to a whole new level.  Gorgeous, smart, and the sex was off the charts.  At my age, I thought the days of sweaty messy sex were long gone.  I was wrong.  I am never going to forget her in cow girl.  Eventually collapsing on me and consuming the sweat off my neck. Then in doggie, trying to control her screams by just about biting my pillow in half.  Then in mish, grabbing her feet and spreading wide so I could get as deep as possible.  She was completely drenched everywhere by that time.  Then an oral finish with her commenting that the result was 3x normal.  Ya, an exaggeration, but she provoked a response from me that I thought was impossible.  This and other festivities were non stop for well over an hour.  A few days later and my hips and leg muscles are still feeling the aftermath.  

I am new to this and have maybe seen a dozen providers, so maybe to you more experienced guys, this class of experience is common, but it had never happened to me until now.  I am glad I kept exploring.  So my conclusion is now that age-based selection is not the way to go.  You never know when you are going to hit the mother lode.  

Mr. Fisher - a couple of weeks back I posted a thread in the newbie forum asking if really interesting pre-game banter was a pre-cursor to a great experience with game-on.  You said it was a good sign.  You were right, as this was the lady I was asking about.    I can't get the experience out of my head.  People around me must wonder what the smiling is all about.

When I make a choice, it involves making a connection with what is between her ears.  I know what's under her skirt.  I'd like to explore the things she likes, places traveled, books read, music and concerts seen, her passions, the spark in her eyes.   I know it's not match.com but I look to every lady as a potential long term provider.  
If we go to a nice restaurant, I don't cherish the idea of being seen as the old dude with gray hair out with his "neice".   I'd rather be seen as the guy with the smokin' hot MILF-ish SO.