Not sure that my aging is all that graceful, but I am not fighting with father time with plastic surgery.

In some ways it does today, but I like to think it is how I perform that keeps me in business.

I would not make a big deal out of it, but the two gals I know well who have had it, had excellent surgeons, and it really made them look 20 years younger.

I'm not talking about breast enlargement but rather stretching the facial skin to take out wrinkles, etc.

It's costly and painful, but for those who do decide to go that route, at least with this client, it's appreciated.

I thought this would be the perfect board to ask ....how do you feel about  plastic  surgery  it seems most men do not obsess about it as we women tend to ....so would you ever consider it and if so what would  you like to change ? If money  was not an issue would you be more tempted to do it?

been losing my hair since I was in my 20's, now that most of it is gone sure I'd love to have it back but cant imagine doing anything about it now

I always thought that for a man hair loss would be  number 1  as women get of a certain age our hair too tend to thin out  and it  can be very scary  to deal with  stress  can  be a big factor  for women along with hormones I have been lucky  so far but still its not as thick as in my 30"s or even  4o's I have seen men who have had the surgery to replace hair and must say they have come a long way  in results  but again  it  is very painful and very expensive.....

would that be different  if your job depended on  how you looked say an actor or a newscaster ? Or  a provider?

even if it was low cost and painless I doubt I'd do it , everyone who knows me knows how I look, so what ? one day I show up with a full head of hair?  I'm sure at the minimum I'd get lotsa of stares or more likely laughing and pointing fingers.

I think the whole hair loss thing affects guys who were very good looking in their 20's and 30's and needed to regain the look when they lost their hair. Women never thought I was good looking so it never matter to me, seems kinda superficial to me to have to go through all that as you say " pain and cost"

... but fighting father time with exercise and diet.. no way I am submitting to being carved on unless it's a medical necessity... It's unfair, but men get "character lines", women get "wrinkles" so it isn't a critical for us to try to stay 30 forever even in a youth oriented society.....

... thank god there are swt's out there that have "father" issues *evil grin*

Plastic surgery wouldn't help me anyway because there's too much to fix. Besides, people are used to seeing me this way.

But I certainly appreciated the effort.  She always wanted to try new things, so I had to be ready for anything when she'd spend the night at my house.

For example, one night she came over and said I want you to tie me spread eagle on the stairs and have your way with me for as long as you like.  Another time she told me she wanted to be spanked, and yet another time she walked in the front door and said I brought some anal beads to try on you tonight.

But my favorite thing about this woman was she said it was unbecoming for a man to have to ask, beg, or negotiate for oral sex like most husbands do.  She said it really bothered her to see so many P-whipped men and gave me strict orders that any time I wanted a blow job, I was supposed to simply stick my cock in her mouth- end of discussion.  And that meant even if she was sleeping.

Like I said, never a dull moment.

and have always thought so. I'm sure for men losing something you have gotten very attached to is  disheartening.

I am a real blonde but in my family all turn grey early but for me it was more white. I have the whitest  hair on record in my family and put a blonde rinse in regularly.

Ps : I posted a link about bald headed men back in 2010 on the general board and hope you read it

Kisses Haley

most men  feel the same as you do  I think its more a woman thing to try and at least maintain what they were given ......or maybe get what they were not  blessed with......

Let me start out by saying everyone, but particularly women, have one or two things they'd like to change about themselves, and I have no problem with a little self-improvement.  Based on knowing many women that have had one or two procedures, I've decided that it's perfectly OK to do a little upgrade, but my rule-of-thumb is to stop at two, and only two!  Beyond that, you're not trying to fix imperfections, you're trying to become another person.

I've had four GFs that had breast implants and they all looked and felt great.  The ladies were all thrilled with the results too, even after 15-20 years.  But none of them went larger than a C-cup, and that's the key, along with a good surgeon.  Breasts are power for a woman and too many ladies go power mad and ruin everything.  Even if you get a C-cup, you'll end up with D's after the inevitable weight gain of aging.

I've never known ANY woman that needed to have her lips inflated, so ladies, just stop that shit now, please!  I've never known anybody that looked good, though a couple looked OK.  Just don't do it, I beg of you.

I've known several women that have had what I'd call sensible face lifts at the appropriate age, again, moderation being the key.  The results of two of them were great.  One was a provider and she took 15 years off her age.  Another woman smoke and drank and there was virtually no improvement.  If you want to age well, quit smoking and only drink now and then.  That will do more than any surgeon can.

As for men, I think a minor procedure is OK, but guys really have to be careful.  Guys can't hide facial scars under hair or makeup like women can, plus, nobody wants to look like they're standing in a wind tunnel all the time.  And for some reason, men often end up that way- similar to women's "gargoyle" face when they over do it.

And all these stupid implants to make you look cut that they're pushing now for younger men, god, just shoot me now.  If you're that shallow that you have to have your pecs or you calves fattened with implants, you're a total douche bag and I don't think your lack of muscle definition is your biggest problem.

But if a guy has an unattractive jowl, or some other minor thing like that, then I don't see anything wrong with fixing it.  It's not really any different than having cosmetic surgery to fix a bad smile.  I knew a lady that went from a 7 to a 9 just by having veneers put on her teeth.  And the job market for men is much more competitive than it used to be, so appearance does matter.

So while I've seen the horror stories/pictures like everybody else, my personal experience in Orange County CA has been very positive and I'd be supportive of anyone that wanted to make a couple sensible upgrades.  I think the key is to aim to look like a person your age, or five years younger, that has aged really well, as opposed to trying to look like a person 20 years younger.



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I have often wondered what a beautiful set of DD's would look like on my chest but felt they might be a little to heavy to carry around day in and day out. Then I have this tummy that I would love to wake up one morning and find it magically gone. Well other ladies have posted how they got rid of theirs and with curiosity went on a google prowl to find out more. With so much available to see the videos made me think likewise. No fat sucking machine is going to dig away at my body. Now we come to my face with lines and wrinkles coming on more quickly than I would like. I'm a very natural looking women who hates makeup so caking something on every day isn't for me. Seen a lot of bad face lifts on people who can afford the best..."movie stars" which I won't name. I am doing research now and think this is where I might jump in and try to fool mother nature.

So at this time good food and junk food diet, exercise, juicing and supplements have been fighting off father time but when looking in the mirror becomes less attractive I am sure i'll help fix a few flaws.

Kisses Haley

knee last July. But that was a matter of necessity rather than anything else.

Harley I aint stalking you.  Just find your posts interesting.  

For myself, I dont mind a natural looking lady.  Yeah there is something to be said for all the beauty but there is more to be said about who a person is on the inside.  Maybe she has a bit of crows feet, maybe her breasts are beginning to lose the battle.  But if she is simply fun to be with who cares??  Ok some guys might.  I personally look at a woman with rose colored glasses on if she has a personality.  Your pics get better everytime you post.  I know you keep it up you will be Helen of Troy.  IMHO

As for me.  I exercise and take my vitimans.  I am getting old.  Inside I feel like I did when I was 18.  I dont need any nip and tuck.

The best thing I ever did was to start shaving my head, I never liked the Dr. Phil look, and please no offense to anyone is intended, just my personal preference.I really enjoy this board

Some heads are perfect. The rest have been covered up with hair. What I like the most about being bald is I run my hand over it in the morning and I'm good. It seems to bother others much more than it does me. Hey, guys go bald. It is the way of things. The ladies hands are really soft and warm when they hold it (my head) at those certain moments too.

I am fighting father time but it's with working out and eating well. My parents lived into their mid 80's. I intend to beat them. I look how I look. It's the way a man my age looks. I'm in shape, I'm not over weight, I work out regularly and I help others do the same.  

If a lady asks me if she needs to do something about this or that. I say No. It's all a part of who we are, where we have been, and what we know. Those things are to be revered I always thought that. It didn't just come to me once I was there.

I also say that if you decide to do something don't do it for anyone but yourself. Make sure it's what You want to do and that the reasons for doing it will be with you for the rest of your life.

Donkey shines ;=)   I enjoyed that.

Now THAT was a nice story. Thanks

I am trying to keep my body fit by exercise . Running, weight lifting, eating better, sex,etc.etc. I wouldn't get plastic surgery. Or hair transplants but I can'r get rid of the little paunch even with crunches , and pushups, . So I would probably get it liposucked if I could afford it. But I am still working on it seems to be getting smaller. i do a lot of kagals daily trying to keep that area in shape also. A lot of work but I just recently really started enjoying my life again after being miserable for the past few years so want to live as long as possible.

As others have mentioned this is a bigger issue for the ladies. I know women who have clearly overdone things by trying to change too much, breast implants, teeth whitening, larger breasts etc. so much that they radically changed their appearance for the worse. And these ladies were attractive to begin with. As a result I would be cautious about changing my appearance. To paraphrase Popeye, "I am who I am". Now if there was a surgical procedure that would enable me to lengthen my driving distance, I would consider that.

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If in fact you're eluding to getting something done yourself, you can put that thought right out of that pretty little head of your's.

Funny that I read this thread tonight, cuz I'm training this guy to take over my job before I take another. Anyway, today, we were driving and he brought up something to the effect 'Have you ever seen a lady that was hot and wondered what she looked like when she was younger?'

He went on that he would say something like that to her and I said she'd probably say something like 'Gee. Thanks?'

After reading this, and our talk the other day, I'm here to say I'm glad I met you now just the way you are. You're gorgeous, intelligent, and fun. You have a certain sense about you that makes others want to be near you and share your light. Kind of a chatter-box sometimes, but I think I can deal with it and put both our mouths to good use, lol!

So, let's just say, with your permission of course, that when I have the honor of spending time with you the Victoria I'm interested in being with is the present one and not who or what she was 20 years ago. Okay?  

okay I got it ! thank you.....  you make  me smile ........sweet dreams from Chicago