I've always been a guy who loves going to strip clubs....even back in the day when you'd have to wait through 5 dancers before a hot one came onto the stage and don't forget, noooo lap dances. All of a sudden here I am at 68 years old and when I travel alone (a few times a year) I'll typically hit a strip club. I'm starting to realize how young all the girls are and how I'm usually the oldest person there. I can usually find a stripper in her 30's who appeals to me for lap dances, etc. but I'm starting to feel a little self conscious about my age. I'm a young looking 68 but 68 nonetheless. . .Lastly I hate to give it up because I always have such a good time. Curious about others perspectives.
Oldest guy in the club? Yes. I've had the same self-conscious feelings. That's why I stopped going. Some of the younger ladies are young enough to be our granddaughters.
I have fucked women young enough to be my granddaughters, with great pleasure and with every indication of acceptance from the girls. I don't get why that's an issue for you (and some others). Can you expleain:
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There's a general societal norm that married couples should be of similar age, but that is violently inapplicable to this discussion!
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So if not that, what is the source of discomfort?
Do you have daughters? It just feels odd being with someone around the same age as my daughters. I prefer to stick with a 20 year rule when it makes sense and see ladies no less than 20 years younger than me. Besides, it seems easier to find ladies who get more into it if there is not a really large age difference, though not always. I saw a couple of 20 somethings in the past months that really impressed me. But ideal age range for me is later 30s and up. I'm currently seeing someone 62 , semi-exclusive, and sex with her is some of the best I have had on while while also being much easier on the wallet.
The idea is to attract customers. Cuz they have the money.
What's odd to you about liking young women? We all do! (I'm 73, and not young looking.) If the young woman finds it creepy, let her move on. But if not, just enjoy. Strip club, escort session, wherever. Lots of guys seem to agonize over age difference and I just don't get it, just don't feel it, just don't see why it bothers them. Why does it bother you?
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You "always have such a good time" so why are you even thinking about giving it up? What force, contrary to your own interests and pleasure, is compelling those thoughts?
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Check whether the girl in front of you is giving you that vibe or not. If so, go on to the next girl and repeat the check. Only a very very few strippers will be that way!
Your never to old.
that do I stick out as some old creepy guy among a group of people, ladies and customers, that are significantly younger than me? I can tell right away if a woman seems to young for me but I can always find a nice late twenties to a 30ish dancer that I like. I also have no problem with seeing escorts in the same age range so that’s not the issue. I just don’t know if seeing someone my (our) age at the club sends out the creeps?
Not me!
Like one other poster said, let the girl move on!
It is P4P!
I’m not a fan of strip clubs, but you are there to enjoy yourself, not make friends. I’m on SA, and only respond to women contacting me because I’m 76. I’m amazed at all the emails I get. As the old song goes, “Enjoy yourself, it’s later than you think”.
While I am not in my 60's, I remember sitting with a a stripper at COI talking about some "middle aged guys over there" who were not her type. They looked maybe 40 and completely normal looking. And was was thinking, you just sucked my dick, you gave me your number and want to hang out. And I was 50! It's all about game and cash.
The older you get, the more experiences you have and girls like that. Women like game because you are entertaining, confident and probably have a job and the ability to take care of her!
If you don't enjoy it then don't go. But I wouldn't worry for one second about whether I seemed to old to be there. Live life while you can!
Personally, when I was a dancer, I always appreciated my older clientele. Not just for the money, but the overall experience. When an older gent came into the club solo, often they would buy me a drink, engage in conversation, get some dances. It was a pleasant no-stress exchange. No negotiation or time wasting, they were typically polite and respectful.
In contrast the young guys doing a bachelor party for example were often rude, pushing boundaries, wanted to take up a lot of time for free, trying to get outside services at times. (I was opposed to escorting when I was dancing, LOL!)
If you enjoy spending time in strip clubs, I would encourage you to indulge.