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Only if you promise to call me by my chosen name
2horses2many 1915 reads
posted
1 / 29
Ladies, please don't call me sweetheart, sweetie or honey,

Maybe just me, but this addresses. Were a boners killer to me. What are yours? if you have any, just curious.

BigPapasan 3 Reviews 737 reads
posted
2 / 29
Babe, Hun - do I look like Attila? (eom)


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sexybexy See my TER Reviews 699 reads
posted
3 / 29
Even if I am from the South???


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tozer 72 Reviews 701 reads
posted
4 / 29
2horses, I think you are a wigwam and a tepee -- 2 tents

In other words, chill. You'll enjoy life more.

Debra_Hollander See my TER Reviews 626 reads
posted
5 / 29
No problem, sugar-tits!

I have no issue not using any endearments whatsoever, so long as you tell me up-front that you dislike it.
Although some of my reviews may indicate that I am a "Cock Whisperer", I really cannot read minds.  LOL!

;-)

xoxoxoxoxo

josulli 15 Reviews 575 reads
posted
6 / 29
Hun always bothers me

I figure that's what the fat waitress in the IHOP may call me..

mrfisher 112 Reviews 670 reads
posted
7 / 29
How about stud-muffin?.....

I may be corny and old-fashion, but I like it when gals call me cute names.

Here's a tune to groove to
Related Link: sorry, sorry, sorry...

emorf4077 67 Reviews 524 reads
posted
8 / 29
Hun is the singular form of Youz

In Philadelphia and South Jersey diner waitress speak.

oargerela 110 Reviews 688 reads
posted
9 / 29
Yes Sir, Yes Sir, Yes Sir.....

I knew a lady that addresses me "Yes Sir" like an admiral or a royalty and drives me crazy but at the end she always redeemed herself and calls me YES! YES! YES! YESSSSSSSS SIRRRRRRRR aaaahhhhh.....

termeup 6 Reviews 650 reads
posted
10 / 29
Me too, Melissa....

I've told the provider my name when I first called, perhaps again when I confirmed and again when we meet.  I don't think it's asking too much to remember it for an hour.  I may be just another "john", but don't make me feel that way.

Posted By: SweetMelissa
I absolutely hate it when a client addresses me as ..  
   
 Babe, Honey, Darling, etc....  
   
 

Tabu See my TER Reviews 746 reads
posted
11 / 29
Only if you promise to call me by my chosen name

(Tabu) and not start our date by asking "What can I call you?"

I did select my name thoughtfully, and it doesn't seem too onerous to expect the lovely gents who have chosen me to address me that way!

Just sayin'.

Debra_Hollander See my TER Reviews 631 reads
posted
12 / 29
Why would you think that's the reason?

Posted By: termeup
I don't think it's asking too much to remember it for an hour.  I may be just another "john", but don't make me feel that way.  
I'm asking this sincerely: why do some folks assume that the usage of endearments indicates that the speaker has forgotten your name?    

Yes, some people take it as condescension, and I get that.  But why must it mean I don't KNOW your name?

I call people by such terms ALL THE TIME.... it's just the way I talk.   It has nothing to do with remembering someone's name; for many of us, it's just a habit.  Lots of people do this.  

Personally, I find it very off-putting when, after saying, "Come on in, honey!" the person replies (in not a nice tone) "My name is DICK".   To which I naturally respond, "Yes, honey, I know that.".... with a very big smile.  :-)

I call everyone "honey" so much that I even made that my stripper-name for awhile.  And not because I can't remember my own name, lol.  :-)

 
xoxoxoxox

Fancy8888 See my TER Reviews 594 reads
posted
13 / 29
NO problem

Good thing to call folk's by their names.Instead sweetheart,sweetie,honey.Play SAFE folks.

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Lovely Lorena See my TER Reviews 647 reads
posted
14 / 29
lol.. I know it is condescending when I have young girls email me

for a reference and they start out with ..Hon..

 
I like to call men by their names ..

happy hobbying
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termeup 6 Reviews 582 reads
posted
15 / 29
Why?

Remembering that this is the old fart's board, perhaps my manners go back to another era.  But my feelings are that in any business or social encounter it is proper to address a person by her or his name.  In spite of the physical intimacy I feel that you should call me by my name at least a couple of times before moving to such names as "honey".  I feel that there's a better connection between us when I'm reassured that you've made the effort to remember my name.  I don't like a waitress to call me honey or some such name either.  Perhaps it's a generational or regional thing.

 
 
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
 

TrulyMsMocha See my TER Reviews 591 reads
posted
16 / 29
Don't call me your sexy little slut before we've even had a first date. ....

Sorry not sorry but adding sexy to it doesn't make it cute. I don't mind dirty talk or being called kinky names but save it for the date especially if we've yet to even physically meet for the first time.  
Oh and not a fan of most racial stuff.

ATLDAWG 617 reads
posted
17 / 29
Re: Don't call me your sexy little slut before we've even had a first date. ....

I am not bothered by it but a couple gal's I know uses:  "Hey Sexy", or "Hi Sexy", or a derivation of that-seems like a favorite of a few !  But again-I don't really mind-I know why we're here-so no big thing !!

TrulyMsMocha See my TER Reviews 643 reads
posted
18 / 29
I'm not bothered by 'sexy' lol...the whole reply/point matters not just that one little word. ....

I don't mind being called sexy lol.  
I'm a lady of leisure but check yourself a little before especially before we've even had a first date.  
Without repeating myself too much again I don't mind playful banter at all but i've had a few take it too far trying to be "nasty" before we've even had a first chance to meet...it's a little off-putting. I'm not your sexy little slut....yet.

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As.Good.as.It.Gets 481 reads
posted
19 / 29
Oh daddy is bad enough ...

oh grandpa will definitely drive me out the door.

WICardinalfan 517 reads
posted
20 / 29
I agree

I do not think calling someone by their real name signifies non professional connectivity, but rather respect.

While a necessary evil, I think most of the generic names sound in sincere, at least to me.  

On the other hand, call me whatever you want in the moment combined with some good ole dirty talk.

Love it!

WICardinalfan 566 reads
posted
21 / 29
How about "Fuck Buddy"

.....after our second meeting I started calling one of my ATF's "Fuck Buddy".  I asked if she was OK with it and she said yes.  Not as condescending, but gets the point across.

SouthernGent51 10 Reviews 574 reads
posted
22 / 29
Names and the whole picture

I totally agree.  Honey, sugar, baby, sweetie, etc. are turn offs.

The total package involves many "angles," for example: those things that bring us together mutually.

Politics are also divisive, but some choose to bring that into a conversation.

Yeah, we're all different, but think of the things to discuss that can bring you closer together.  Thing syou love to do for fun, compliments on features: personality, intellect, beauty, stimulating sexuality, etc.

It is always best to remembe that the sexual organ between the ears controls the others.

702touch See my TER Reviews 528 reads
posted
23 / 29
sorry...

but i am from texas so it is instilled in my vocabulary

LillianWest See my TER Reviews 524 reads
posted
24 / 29
I don't like it either

It's disengenuous and patronizing. (Unless I know you)

hbt49 7 Reviews 466 reads
posted
25 / 29
Another take

Im not so sure its what the lady calls you or what you call the lady as much as How -- tone, context, etc.  Often you only know a providers "stage" name, and you know that is not her given name -- why would that be better than sweetie or honey?  I don't find it a big deal unless it is demeaning or derogatory.   Just my 2 cents worth.

ray8510 16 Reviews 539 reads
posted
26 / 29
My ATF calls me Babe

It sounds affectionate and I like it. I wouldn't have a problem with sweetheart, sweetie, or honey.

Glossolalia 523 reads
posted
27 / 29
God...

Is often what one might think I'm calling them.  As in "oh God! Oh GOD!  OH GOD!!!"

Once I've simmered down I usually revert back to your name.  As in " [first name], that was incredible!!! "

smallsteps 4 Reviews 644 reads
posted
28 / 29
None of those names bother me, but my favorite is when she calls me

by my real name.

AllyVixen See my TER Reviews 447 reads
posted
29 / 29
My take on this....

I feel like as long as a person is being friendly towards me that's all that counts, although properly addressing someone but their name is better, saying " Hun" or " Sweetheart" a few times is ok for me :-)

I agree, I don't find it a big deal either unless it is demeaning or derogatory but I am aware that others think differently.  

 

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