I went to my old reviews....done one at a time over 18 years.....and I re-read 30 of them starting with the first one in December 2003 ! I remembered every girl and even had recall of the hotel or apartment we met in! Of course as you would expect a lot of them are no longer in business....a few are....I know one passed away about 2 years ago from some type of cancer and another has retired and living in St. Petersburg, Florida ! (I called her a couple months ago).
I am now 75 years old and my serious hobbying days appear to be behind me....I don't travel like I was paid to do when I was working ! I still see a couple gals here in Atlanta when I can....but it sure is nice to have the memories !!! If it wasn't for TER I would not have had a vehicle to record these activities....Life is Good ...Enjoy It then Savor It !!The reviews I did in 2001, which were never approved are the ones I laugh about, the way I worded and formatted them, god I didn't know how to write a review but the details are still there....
And as I read the reviews, the sessions are in my mind like it was yesterday. I remember 99,9% of all of them.
It's a shame I can't write a review of a girls I saw 15 or so years ago, the ones I didn't review...but I remember them. Oh
Diane Jupiter, Italian Sonya...Jessie...were the hell are you?
Yet I have forgotten women I had fucked only the day before, (and yes that is a bit embarrassing. lol) I guess some sex and some women are just more memorable than others. I bet I can only remember maybe 10% at most of the women I have fucked in my lifetime. I know I would be hard pressed to remember every girl I have fucked this year alone, and I am nowhere near as active as I once was.
Long term memory, short term ... uh, uh ... ??? ... memory.
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Many can remember a poem, a song, the state capitals, multiplication tables, their friends' phone numbers ... stuff they learned when they were 8 years old. Try to memorize something new today (a song, a phone number, whatever) and it doesn't stick quite as well.
Yet I have forgotten women I had fucked only the day before, (and yes that is a bit embarrassing. lol) I guess some sex and some women are just more memorable than others. I bet I can only remember maybe 10% at most of the women I have fucked in my lifetime. I know I would be hard pressed to remember every girl I have fucked this year alone, and I am nowhere near as active as I once was.
that a human brain is like a computer, and has a fixed storage capacity. Maybe you are not "forgetting" recent girls, but rather there is no room left in your brain to store the memory. On the other hand, memories that have been stored for 30-40 years are safely archived forever, and can be easily recallled. This theory would explain why people think as you grow older your memory starts to fade out, but in reality, maybe you just don't have any more storage capacity. I like this explanation a lot better than the one that says its all about age. Lol
Doctors, hair stylists, etc. all want to know why I didn't make my appointment, so that is what I tell them. These days my memory is a hunk of scraps of paper I stick in my shirt pocket during the day to remind me of things. Problem is that I can't read my own writing so they do me no good. 8o(
It's even come to the point where I can't even remember things that I was trying to forget.
That was Sherlock Holmes's theory.
actually, his theory is different. In his version, when you acquire new to remember, it bumps something you already knew out of your brain. In my version, once you reach your capacity, much like a computer reaching its capacity for new information, there is no room for new memories, but the archived memories will still be intact.
It's like the difference between RAM memory and ROM.
It also reminds me of an episode of Married With Children when this happens to Kelly Bundy. lol
"When you pour a gallon of information into a shot glass of a brain" .. brilliant!
"When you pour a gallon of information into a shot glass of a brain" .. brilliant!
On May 5th I past my tenth anniversary in the hobby.
I too went through my old reviews on TER.
I now wished I had reviewed every lady I visited for nostalgia purposes.
Who track every dollar spent and do a write-up on every session, which they keep in a MS Office document... I suppose this would be great if you were completely unattached and lived in a country where P4P was completely legal.
I, personally don't feel comfortable doing any more of a paper and money trail that I leave already.
There's the new hazard of your location-enabled smart phone. It tracks every trip, and you damn well better accept that your location data is available to a wide variety of actors without any sort of oversight .. I'm already getting ads pushed to my phone for Asian dating services, god knows what else is churning in the bowels of the FANG algorithms.
You can imagine in 4, 8, 12 years from now, where an extreme left or right wing administration decrees that visiting Sex workers, even years or decades after the fact, marks you as a Bad Person who needs to be ostracized ..
I'm too disorganized to ever have anyone call me anal retentive. But I do keep a spreadsheet of all the escorts or sugar babes I've met -- their stage name and the date of first meeting. I would never remember them all (even it if is a small number compared to some of the monger achievements here.) Looking through the list I can remember what they looked like for most of them, but a few I can no longer really recall.
Anyone who keeps a spreadsheet of every hooker and sugar baby he has ever met pretty is considered anal-retentive by default.
I'd have to hire a special IT department just to manage such a list personally. lol