I've found my sexual interests have steadily evolved and gotten much broader in the last 25 years. To use a food analogy, I used to be a meat and potatoes guy, but now I want to experience the entire smorgasbord of tasty dishes.
The list of things I want to do is still getting longer; now I just need to find the right partners to make them a reality.
As a really, really old fart, I figure AIDS or syphillis or whatever won't have time to bring me down, so I'm a little less careful sometimes when I'm with one or two favorite ladies. That's fun for all of us.
But the greater changes include the influence of widespread porn -- and what you learn from watching it -- plus society's acceptance generally of things that were formerly taboo. (The repeal of DADT and growing number of gay marriage states are prime exhibits of that.)
It's harder to pop now, so sex is a process of pleasure over a full hour or whatever, and the lessons of porn come in handy in deciding how to fill that time. The dirtier the better now, and it's guilt free (as well as a stimulant to pop) thanks to everyone's current level of tolerance.
No, I have no interest in guys, but I'm not the homophobe I once was. And some of those trannies are looking really good, aren't they?
I have found that with the providers I see now I am a lot more adventurous then I ever was at a younger age. In earlier times I was just happy to get it in and cum. Now I am actually trying out the 101 sex positions, finding new variants that give that extra sensations. I am open to trying or experiencing some fetishes I would never have tried at a younger age. I think its my age making more open to trying many different sensations since the actual cumming is now usually once and over. This is definitely a time of new experiences I would not have wanted to try when younger.
Not sure it has to do with age, as it does the fact that the ladies I'm with encourage more adventurous actions. And once you start, it can be hard to stop finding new things to do. Civi girls when I was young, to use G2's analogy, were pretty meat and potatoe type of girls. And the idea of trying something new or different was usually met with a big NO.
I am much more liberated. After 40 years of missionary and occasional doggie at home and asolutely no oral, I am learning all sorts of new things and expereincing all sorts of new sensations that I would have never even imagined possible 20 and 40 years ago! I don't know how much I would have appreciated the variety in my youth but I certainly enjoy it now!
With my ATFs who I have have known for several years.
Trust and connection evolves , and therefore I have taken a "walk on the wild side", and have been enlightened in MANY different ways.
Very awesome, indeed!
Peace and enjoy,
Lance
Are much more honest and open about their likes and interst...Which happens to be much more open and adventursome about game playing and exploring..
I find that they are much more fun...
I had pretty much given up and figured I was condemned to a pretty-much sexless marriage. Tried everything -- talking, counseling, Viagra -- and nothing worked. Things would get better for a couple weeks and then, back to the old problems. Then I turned 60, realized that my Dad died when he ws 68 and decided that life is too short to live it miserably. So I screwed my courage to the sticking place and jumped in. I'm not a wild man or anything, but I'm sexually active again, trying some new things, and having some guilt free fun.
I am 71 and just into the scene for a little over a year. I am finding I am open to new things now. I have a fav Dallas4u she has no limits that I have found. I have grow to trust her and each time we meet I go a little further. I know she will stop if I find something that I am not willing to try. The big thing with me was I was afraid she would laugh at me if I suggested some thing. I found she has already tried it and has no problem with it.
I agree with you curt23. That's why I love mature gentlemen!
Mature men are able to pass up the selfish feeling, and select the course of action to have the possibility to enjoy the moment's of fun together. Of course it will pay off later… The beginning of a long term lovely friendship!
Having a relationship with mature friends offer me the chance to enjoy my own pleasure at another level, the result of the connection between my thirst for adventure with the experience and maturity of my partner.
Mature partners seek new ways to help each other grow and to enjoy the instant gratification that comes with the romance of the moment while knowing the best is yet to come!
I wish you a great weekend!
Angela del Solar
it doesn't detract from the session. I enjoy them as much as I ever did, if not more.
I am glad that being past 60, some of the late 30s and into their 40s gals are still such youngsters to us that we think of them as teenagers.
I have had two wonderful LTR friendships. One lady returned back to private life and now I am exclusive with a very special gal.
I have done things in my sixties that I read about decades ago, but did not have a partner interested or willing.
I have learned two things -
"If you can have casual sex with someone and keep it casual, you have no business having sex with each other in the first place." and
"A good woman brings out the best in a good man"
The love of a good woman helped me to redirect, and now all of my fat-boy clothes went to Goodwill and I am enjoying wonderful health.
When I was a teenager, I noticed that the only gals that I was interested in looking at were my age or younger.
You know that still applies.
One last comment - Had a wonderful visit with a gal my actual age. I had wood that would not go down. So, gals keep it coming. And stay in the game.