what a question

My buddies hadnt a clue at 13.  I am thinking I was 15 and my mother gave me a medical type book to read.  Unfortunatly it didnt tell you how to do it right,  just what was done.  Took me years to figure out how to do it right.  I am actually still studying.

.... and poured over it. I remember the message about masturbation being really positive (despite the conservative nature of the era). I took that message as a green light to play with myself –––– and I did –––– a lot. I don't remember how old I was because I've always been promiscuous (my first "show me yours" experience was when I was 5 or 6. There were many more show me games until I started letting boys finger me in the 6th grade. I never had "the talk" with my mom. The only thing that resembled "the talk" was when she came to me when I was around 16 to tell me she was putting me on birth control pills. Guess she saw trouble coming otherwise. ; )

I was masturbating at 10 and can remember playing nurse and doctor at 8. That's the first time I saw a penis and even touched it. My early teen years were very frustrating since the boys were all talk and no action. They would pop as soon as you touched them. I can remember the teen boys talking about eating pussy and how nasty that must be. I found an older man when I was sixteen who ate my pussy every chance he could although he would never do any more than that. I was a virgin until a sixty second senior gave me the disappointment of my life ... sex.

PS: My first sexual book at 16 was the "Story of O"  

Kisses Haley

My dad attempted to teach me the facts of life when I was about 11 or 12.  Unfortunately, it was in the nature of a medical school lecture, and I couldn't follow the discussion.  My real eduction came one or two years later from a cousin, who was eight years older than me.  I had no trouble understanding him.  For my 15th birthday, he took me to get laid-- needless to say, he was always my favorite relative.  55 years later, I am still going strong, albeit with the help of those wonderful blue pills and some great ladies (one in particular) who make me feel young and alive.

called "Modern Man." The centerfold was a huge-chested Danish blonde named Annette Casir. I still remember her to this day. Gorgeous lady! And I learned bits and pieces about society's no-no's from my schoolmates.

I was a farm boy. It was pretty obvious how things

worked.  I never did get "The Talk".  Just came to the realization during our normal discussions.  I think the full impact finally hit me when I was 11 and figured out masturbation.

Now, I'm one of the "old bulls".  If you don't udnerstand the reference, ask me.

I remember hearing my mom talk about Blow jobs and could not for the life of me figure out why a hair dryer was such interesting conversation. But it was not long after that that I kind of figured out they were grown up wrestling behind closed doors..

I think I was 14 before I really figured it out. but having a BF who was 5 years old. speed up my learning expereince....

It was a middle school  film day  they separated  the boys from the girls  and took us to see a film  on menstruation   I had no idea what was going to happen to my body and it freaked me out big time  the  very idea of giving birth  scared me to death and then to hear hair was going to grow in certain places was too much to handle .....I remember  a group of us running into the girls room to check under our arms for hair and sure enough one of us has a couple   so I new it was true .......from that day forward I decided never to have kids  it affected me profoundly.......

My mom told me what not to do... don't have sex. There were the classes they start teaching in the 5th grade, but that was more-so about menstruation & the class was divided, so we only got to hear the girl stuff. I actually had an argument with my friend, probably in the 5th grade, in where she told me how babies were really made. I told her she was a liar, & that you got pregnant by taking a pill(I think my mom told me this, lol). I was so mad at her for even suggesting that people did that.... yeeeeaaa.

I think around 14, I got a hold of one of my mom's books, where there were explicit sex scenes, & was still slightly confused... then one day got into my parents Hustler tapes, lol... learned a lot from watching those, but still didn't have sex for the first time until I was 16.

Hence why I have told my children the basics of everything already... the first time they told me you could get pregnant from kissing someone, I had to break it down to them. I don't think knowledge will make children any more promiscuous... I think it's the curiosity that has kids trying stuff so young.

5th grade elementary school evening assembly of fathers and sons

Sitting in the gymnasium on folding metal chairs; slack-jawed watching an "overhead" presentation by some PTA approved doctor.

 The girls were excused from morning class for a film presentation and lecture by their very "butch" gym teacher.  

  Somehow life has never been the same since.