I'm sure I'm not the only guy who's left his sexual gymnastics and automatic ejaculation days behind.  These days, the things that matter more and more in a provider are intimacy, beauty, youth (sometimes), and the creation of a really horny memory for later use.  And, as much as anything, her attitude.

So my question is this.  Where have you other old guys been most accepted and where have you been blown off after picking providers using TER search?  For example, how do K-girls treats us olde fartes (in general, of course)?  What general guidelines do you follow based on your experience?

Yes, I already know that a big stack of C-notes is effective.  That wasn't really my question.

Ladies' answers would be most welcome, of course.  How do you feel about us old timers?

I frequent an agency in my area and I see a few indies. I have found each and every lady to be very accepting. I have never been "blown off" as you put it. I agree with you about the things that matter most in a session now too.

Done most of my hobbying in the Tampa area.  Done a few in TN, but in Tampa, very few disappointments.

with my age.  Its up to the lady after that if she wants to see me or not.  I am pretty selective and so far, have been fortunate that all my dreams have come true.  I'd rather create a totally satisfied memory myself.

Nothing could be finer than to be in the Carolinas.

I hobby all over the West, I do some research, and TBH, this has never been a problem.  I also don't see young providers, I prefer providers over 30.

since finding TER and seeing better quality providers I would definitely say lucky and always felt accepted. For the best times the lady needs to be 35+ . I would love to try a sexy 55 year old but unfortunately she is on the other side of the country and I don't travel anymore.

Your earlier posts -- and my visits to your web site -- were the inspiration for my original question starting this thread.

And even though you're on the wrong coast, you're also the inspiration for the hardon I just got.  What a babe!

Today I have a Gent flying in to meet me at 4pm for a 90 minute appointment  and then we are going out to dinner OTC. I came up with the OTC idea mostly for my old timers. Many of them are retired and aren't rolling in the dough and they also need and desire companionship and intimacy. He is in his 70's.
xoxo
Sexy Carolina

hard-ons!
I also love inspiring people and giving their brain some sensualhealing.
I'm your babe!!  
Love it!!

I usually review TER reviews and websites if available. Look for older providers and ones who appear to really enjoy sex. Gorgeous 20 somethings are unlikely to be a good fit. Connect by email if possible and make sure at some point to let them know my senior status, the limitations that may entail, and what I enjoy most. My experience is that the more info you can provide up front the better the experience is likely to be.

Am I the only one who doesn't know what OTC stands for?

Re: over 60 does not an old man make

Thank you for this insightful post, Larissa.
I am both over 60 and relatively new but have already discovered the truth in what you have stated. My sense is  that the few young providers I have seen are indeed  it for the $.   At first it was fun to be with a really hot, super attractive young  woman, including one 18 year old. But those expereinces were usually only physical.
I now generally see women in the 30-40s range and I have learned to choose differently and carefully, based on what a provider says about herself in her website and her reviews (clients description of the woman, not the sex, much more than the numbers). I  have expereinced something  beyond physical sex - call it genuinely beautiful love making,  with women who are sensual and romantic as well as being sexual. Because of the magical chemistry, I have left most of those encounters feeling fulfilled. What a wonderful dimension this hobby has added to my life!

it won't bother me a bit. I'll just move on to the next lady.