I truly enjoy and honestly prefer older gentleman but am always in a bit of a quandary...I find myself trying not to scream out OH FUCK when the orgasms start washing over me or yell fuck even louder when someone hits the squirt button.  

But like anything, it has to be done well and be convincing.  

If it comes off as real go for it  
If you are screaming "O God" before my tongue finds your clit it is a complete let's downer.
I will have to say that many of the mature providers do not need to ask the question they have the answer/
Right Ginger T.  as one of them.

I'm asking about genuine dirty talk! In the heat of the moment..... it's a general question.... what is a turn on? Definite turn off?  It's a general poll since every session is unique and hot in it's very own way.

Touche..... it was an early morning: Wonder what the majority says kind of question. As a mature provider...I make no assumptions.

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Dirty talk is a huge turn on for me, especially when expressed while enjoying genuine pleasure.  Fuck has always been my favorite word.

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Will go with the others here - when done in the heat of the moment, I love it. To me, it's feedback that I'm doing something right. Dirty talk for the sake of talking dirty is a turn off.

...is good with me, as long as she means it.

The thing is, every lady is so different, I don't know what I like. Your true self is the best surprise.  

... with a mature provider.  She was... LOUD. And would have done any sailor proud with her use of language.  She even apologized afterwards.  But it all seemed genuine so I loved it.  She was just being herself.  I love it when a provider feels comfortable enough to show me insights to her true self, and not some fake p4p persona.  

during the heat of passion, exclaim multiple "Oh God" or "Oh fuck". Yes, it helps the mental part of P4P letting me know I must be doing something right.

Fuck yes, it does it for us!

I love to hear "fuck" from a woman I'm fucking.  We just showered together, we're not dirty, pussy juice is not dirty, precum is not dirty, and "fuck" (or especially "Fuck!") is not a dirty word.  Context rules.  

I once met a lady who was multi orgasmic. Only her orgasms weren't moans, groans, and 'oh yeah babies'. She literally growled like a wild animal when she was cumming. Once she started growling, her inhibitions would completely let loose, and she'd say some of the nastiest things I've ever heard. Never known another woman like her. I saw her many times.  

Terrific response! One of my golden rules is to "say what I mean and mean what I say!" I've had several occasions where I called someone sexy. Their automatic response is: "You say that to everyone." The reality is no...I will find something nice to say but I won't call someone sexy if I haven't found them to be sexy.  

I generally love dirty talk.  For me, the word cunt is a major turn on.  I find most women reluctant to use it and prefer to say pussy.  So I encourage the use of my favorite word by setting a good example and always calling her pussy her cunt.  If she does not pick up on the hint and reply in kind I figure she's offended and I go back to pussy. But if she picks up on my verbiage and gets on board with it, with a twinkle in her eye, I know I've found a keeper!

Amazing what you learn here. I never thought of what you all just described as "dirty talk".  I thought exclamations of heat and passion were just that. I thought dirty talk was more complicated... stories or a running commentary on the action at hand ("spread that tight pussy open with your big, hard cock").

Why not ask at the beginning  of a session if the gentleman likes dirty talk. As far as I'm concerned, I enjoy an exchange of dirty talk between myself and the escort.

Keep it genuine...agreed.  I really do not go out of my way to  butter someone up falsely.  The fact of the matter is that mature ladies have been alive long enough to know how to connect with another person casually and sexually IF she is open to to that.  Ladies like us truly get into meeting different kinds of gents and people.  We are curious by nature...I honestly have found many men like this as well.  Everyone is looking to expand those horizens.  Stretch their limits.  Love it!  

I loved if done right as everyone says, but biggest problem is finding someone that to do it .  when asked they are surprised and have a dumbfounded look and dont know what to say, so we skip it.

I love genuine dirty talk, but more in the moment as an expression of feeling. As an example;
"Don't stop"  "Lick a littler softer/harder" "slap my ass" "I want your cum on/in......" that sort of thing.  Everyone is different and I am more than willing to adjust my  game.

Yeah nothing wrong with  
Dirty talk or what we perceive as “dirty talk”

I don't think any of those words have cum to my mind let alone across my lips in the heat of the moment!  

Even better...adding some tantric...taking you to the edge, building an intensity......and having you trying to catch your wits about you while having the last droplets gently licked away..... that is an incredibly powerful, amazing, erotic feeling!

I enjoy provocative speech during the throes of passion. Turns me the fuck one.

Some genuine sexy dirty talk from you would be great!

...   let's just say… Your neighbors will know your name. ha!

... I agree with your philosophy.  

and I have to say, all these reactions sound so much fun! Good for you!

I need a comfort level with a client to engage in dirty talk as I have same concerns. Is he going to like it or is swearing, even in heat of passion, a turn off?