In my mid 60's and thankfully healthy. As I mature I find that it's more and more important for the provider I'm with to enjoy our"date" as much as I do. My days of banging some good looking but dis-interested provider just don't work for me. I'm not fooling myself by thinking these ladies are dying to have sex, but I do want them engaged and enjoying our time together
My question is this; with so many ladies claiming to be "senior friendly" how do you really know? I really don't feel like experimenting and finding out during the session that the provider isn't into mature men.
Suggestions for improving the odds of finding ladies who genuinely like to spend time with older guys would be welcome.

You will never actually know.    Some gals are great actresses, and you are their paying audience.   These gals are quite successful, generally.

You are fortunate to live in "TER country" where there are a lot of TER members who write reviews.

if you go with more “mature” providers.  For example, if you see an ad for a 25-year-old that says “senior friendly” and another from a 50-year-old, I’ll bet you’ll have a better connection with the older woman.  Another hint is if the provider sees ONLY older men.  One of my favs has a minimum for new clients of 50 years old. She’s mid-50s and prefers the company of mature men.  And she definitely enjoys sex... or she’s a better actress than Meryl Streep.

...you're adamant about banging hot young bodies, I'd suggest pursuing encounters with the more matured woman.  Make half your age your floor, and don't even think about TOFTT.  Dive into reviews of those you're attracted to for the nuances that suggest the date you'd most like to have.  I'm 70, and my own experience has the satisfaction meter closer to pegging out more often the closer to my age the provider is.  The older woman more often than not equates to a more confident sexuality (often more intoxicating than physical beauty alone), which leads to better chemistry, which translates into more I "forgot it was a service" dates.

With all that has been said here.  There is a gal in Chicago, reviews are off the charts, former porn star, fucks like a fiend, not for me. Her reviews have her copulating in mid air (I exaggerate)   I am too old for the sex Olympics so I pass, based on the review.    

Thanks for the feedback and suggestions, gents. Your input is much appreciated!

I always have, since I was young & had a crush on Sean Connery. I have had the same regular friend now for a decade, and he is 70 now. My old friend has suffered a few heart attacks, and health is an issue when it comes to playtime. I would choose an older gent over a younger man any day. I love the wisdom, the knowledge, and the insight a mature man provides. I see that I need a connection to provide. Chemistry is everything.

Exactly! Chemistry is everything. That's why I'm interested in meeting ladies who, like you, actually prefer older guys. It seems to me that a lot of providers claim to be senior friendly when they're really not and as a result the chemistry or connection just isn't there.
I totally understand that both providers and clients are attracted to different people for different reasons. To each their own. I just believe that the chances for building that chemistry that you described is easier to develop when both parties are genuinely attracted to each other. And it's not just about looks.
Thanks!

I agree with everything pretty much that has already been said.  I'm almost 77 (next month) and am a prostate cancer survivor so I guess you could say that I pose a bit of a "challenge" for providers.  The key for me is that the lady is patient with me and takes her time as I prefer the gentle approach.  Most providers I've been seeing are in their mid to late 30's and that has worked for the most part.  DFK is an absolute 'must' for me!

Oh wait a second. I am about to turn 62 and 31 is more my "ceiling"  and not my floor. Never mind. lol

I was mostly looking for 20-somethings, but it didn't take long to realize that the chemistry just isn't there, even if she's  good at faking it.  I started moving up in age until I reached my current sweet spot, which are ladies 35-45 (I'm 62).  

...four were 26-30 and one was 31-35.  So much for your "sweet spot" of 35-45.

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I've become an over 40's guy at this point in my life. To me experience and ladies who are into mutually sensual encounters are far more exciting than 20 something hot bodies who don't have a clue.  
Plus middle-aged providers who take care of themselves and can carry on an intelligent conversation are hot as hell!
Just my preference, YMMV

Or you are just lying as usual.  

he's "D", all of the above.   He has said this on the Kgirl board, and even though someone more politely said the same thing you did, which is basically, "Read CDL's fucking reviews,"  he insists on continuing to make an idiot out of himself with no help from anyone else.  He's truly a moron and apparently not afraid to let everyone else know.  Lol