Getting acquainted will assure a better time had by both. The sad part about these intimate e-mails is we are both perfect strangers. Be sure before you start sending info that could be construed as illegal activities or personal preferences that references are taken care of. For the gentlemen who is a newbie he is treading on a very serious situation since this could cause him opportunities to not see ladies. For the newbie mentioning medical conditions that cause problems without asking about sexual favors might work just fine. Even then asking someone to do anything via e-mail no matter how well you are known they are vouched for does upset some ladies and will end communication with you. Getting VIP will save any man from being totally disappointed with the lady he meets.

What you posted here and the way you expressed your situation would not bother me even without references. I like the "one and done" without really say to much

Kisses Haley

yiorgiki, I appreciate receiving extra information in advance.

It's nice to know a little about who I will be meeting ahead of time.  So I appreciate any and all information that you feel comforatble sharing.  Since you shared a little about yourself in this thread, I have something to tell you that might interest you and other men who have the same limitations.  

So many gentleman I have met are in the same boat you are.  Not only with the one and done.  But they felt their options were limited.  So I introduced them to female condoms.  Prior to using a female condom, very much like you, they felt limited to oral play.  Since I wear the female condom, this allows a lot more freedom for both me and my sexual partner.  The best part is NO male condom is necessary for the man.  I cannot tell you how many times I have heard a man say the male condom makes him lose his erection.    

The female condoms offer the same amount of protection that a male condom offers.  In my opinion, I think they offer more protection.  Because there is less skin on skin contact.  They feel very natural too.  You will be fooled into thinking there is nothing there.  Using the female condom is a wonderful, natural feeling experience.  When I first began using the FC2 female condoms, they felt so natural that I had to keep checking to make sure it was still in place!  It always was.  They stay in place, and you can feel confident in knowing that they will give you the same protection from STD's as a male condom does.

I know I went a little off topic here.  But I wanted you to be aware of this option.  

Best, Betty xoxo

As I look back over the past two years, I think that my best dates have been with women who were willing to communicate with me back and forth by email for a few times, getting to know each other a bit that way. When we actually met, I was far less nervous and much more comfortable, almost like a hook up with a friend, not a stranger.

They always make me smile.

I like emailing back and forth a bit before meeting and chatting on the phone once too.

Personal preference!

I appreciate it..

The emails I receive where a gent introduces himself and lets me know some advance info.
The gents who do this I keep in contact with leading up to us meeting when we finally meet it is more like meeting an old friend.Being an Email Only provider and going through so many emails the ones who stand out the most are the gents who took a little step farther and included an introduction.
I think it is a nice touch as long as there is nothing explicit being said.
Thanks Betty for that info hmm....might have to check those out.

I limit info I share or ask for on the first email.   I love the ladies that communicate a bit before hand cause some things can be discovered.  Direct questions are sometimes harder for me to answer but in flirting and banter I guess the real me comes out cause they have my number when I show up lol.

I like to communicate with a lady in advance...  after the briefest of exchanges (to establish that we have correct emails), I like to offer "advance screening" info which just lets her know I am not a time waster.   I'm mixed as to whether or not I give disability info in advance.  My Faves are all mature...  & they all are fine with me & my situation.  
On the other hand, a 30ish MILF I set up with last fall, stood me up...  We were a GO the night before, I was to call in the morning to get the location & she did not pick up.  So I wonder if my information was a deciding factor.  
Yes, one & done...  but like a vacation, it's the journey not just the destination.  I could probably do the deed in 1/2 hour but why?  
H

particularly any meds you're on. It helps when the session rolls around.

One of the most important things to me, is getting to know him before I meet him.
The more we stay in touch, I don't mean 20 emails a week , but a few and some chit chat on the phone
and online, really helps set a comfort  zone for us both. So share away and in advance!

Angela