… or stay with known friends?

but sometimes I have to search for new ones as gals will often go away for various reasons.   I also look for new gals if I'm headed to a city on some kind of business trip, especially  one where I've never been before.

I am always looking for someone new, different and exciting. I find that's one of the best parts of this hobby. So many different people to share good times with. I see a lot of different types of ladies and enjoy the time in different ways with each. Variety is the spice of life.  
When I find someone I really hit it off with, I will repeat. There is a comfort with each other and an expectation of our good time together that has been established. It gets better over time as well.

To some extent I think you always need to try a new provider at times. Things change girls move. I have a few providers I have been seeing for 15 years and will continue to see them. Some have moved but I still see them every chance I get. Its best to have three regular girls in the area you live if possible ( its hard ) . That way you are covered if one goes on tour and another moves or something else. As I age I don't enjoy the hunt as much as I used to. Sometimes I have to make myself see a new girl even though I have a trusted regular I could see. Sometimes the new meetings go great sometimes not, some will blow your mind and you have a new ATF. Its the nature of the business get three and coast for a bit, drop to two and start hunting again.      

Yeah I know it’s risky and all but I like the adventure of the unknown.
And I’ve had some pretty good success stories,
Met one the other day who surprised the hell out of me in a very good way
It’s all about knowing your “sandbox”

I haven't seen anyone new to me in two years. I appreciate consistency, reliability, and being in a comfortable situation.

I agree.  My analogy is that I like to return to the same restaurants because I like the menu and the service.  But occasionally I will try a new "restaurant" that might get added to my "favorites" list.

I probably book around 25% of my sessions with new girls! For me there’s nothing like taking a new young all natural spinner through my routine! I love it when I put her hands up or behind her on a door frame, mirror or bed and I give her a slow teasing full body tongue lashing, followed by soft daty and fov/fiv, leading to a pre-sex explosion, before she even makes a move! That’s a xxx perfect new girl date for me!

I’m 69 and have about 4 ladies I really like in Vegas and really one full time person my home LA.  I don’t feel as comfortable with new people at this age.  I would love to find a good massage person in LA who is good with old guys.  I plan as going as long as possible with the group I see

I've been doing this long enough to have many of my favorites retire.  I don't look for new providers very often, but the ideal age for me is over 40 years old.  I think I prefer the connections with providers that I've know for a while.  The search for a new friend takes too much energy.

For example
There's a ad I saw on some non-reputable site. The pictures of the young lady and the way her ad read, its TGTBT,in my world. But she looks exactly what I really like. So with that being said I reached out to her, She came back with her incall location (well known hotel where the girls in my area hang out) She quoted me her menu/price, ok looking good in a away.  
We tried to set up a time, but unfortunately our schedules didn't jive so I said I'll catch her next week. What I like was that she was very understanding and ask me to reach out next week...didn't ghost me.
My thinking is,she's probably not a rip off, but I'm betting her service will be mediocre...But I just have to meet her so I'm taking the chance.
That's just me now...in a nutshell..alot of new girls

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