Posted By: RoxanneHeartNYC
What do older men think of dirty talking? Sexy or not?
I love sexy talk — using plain words for sex acts and body parts, with meaning, with enthusiasm.
I hate dirty talk — about excretory functions instead of sex functions.
I hate cursing — about (usually) nothing, often misusing sex words or dirty words “for emphasis".
Can we please talk about what we’re enjoying, wanting, planning?
Can we please not dirty it up with outhouse stinks, or reminders of them?
Sex can be messy, but it isn’t dirty/filthy (at least, that’s not my kink).
If you suck my cock, if I lick your clit, they should be clean before and after.
Semen isn’t filthy, neither is pussy juice. Not disgusting to me or (I hope) to you.
OK?
This older man wants you not to be confused, nor to sound confused, between pleasure and filth.
The best thing anyone ever said to me was a provider, softly in my ear as I was about to penetrate her, “Fuck me.” Just once, but I remember it with tingles to this day