I have this provider friend I have known her for a couple of years. She is older 50+ and we get along really well and I enjoy her company. We have many long chats ad dinners out. But the last few times in the sack, I was just not feeling the love if you know what I mean. Kind of feels like my marriage LOL

Anyone else have this happen.

...familiarity breeds conrempt....seriously, take an extended break, chemistry changes with time as do emotions. Respect the bond and try a new approach.

I have a lady also that I have known for couple years. she is 33 and I'm 61. But we get along well and have good times in the sack as you say. We go places together and just generally enjoy each others company. but I still see other providers . I have to realize the reality of this situation. From time to time I have the same problem with her that you are describing. i find that If I wait a few weeks to see her everything goes back the way it was. So I guess we just get to used to each other if we get together too often.

4 years now.  I enjoy her just as much now as I ever did, maybe even more.  Sorry this happened to you, but it's a fact of life that people get tired of each other after an extended period of time together.  Who knows, I might have gotten tired of my fave if I was with her 24/7.  Since I'm not, I still look forward to seeing her every month.

I do know, I got tired of my now ex-wife and got divorced after 6 1/2 yrs, even though it was her idea.  I didn't realize how miserable I had been until we split up.

Swim