So, what's your opinion on provider - clients truly being friends with benefits? In other words, is it possible for both to truly enjoy and look forward to seeing each other but also keep it in perspective?
I would say you have a 10% or less chance of pulling this off. But the price you pay along with the allusion of " the deal " might be worth it to both.
That said, I wouldn't even try it with anyone you haven't known for a while, because the most likely outcome is you'll get ghosted. Having a FWB is the wet dream of many guys but it almost never happens. Better to leave well enough alone and pay up.
My ATF provider is also one of my best friends. So sex with her is like having a FWB, except they’re paid benefits. We keep our platonic friendship separate from our client/provider relationship. Sex work is how she pays her bills, so I pay for it except for occasional OTC time that she initiates. This way, our friendship can survive after she ultimately retires from sex work… as it did when she took a couple of long breaks from it.
you’ve never had a friend with whom you’ve also done business, right? Or you did, but you expected your friend to provide their services to you for free because of the friendship. Or if you’re the one providing the service to a friend, you never charge them for it.
Maybe I should’ve done that when I worked with my Realtor friend when buying my house. I could’ve saved a lot of money! 😏
But really, it’s not all that hard and not a fine line. If both people are truly friends to each other, they’re not going to “use” each other. And that includes not expecting a friend to provide services related to their profession for free.
I prefer arrangements with my friends. We see each other several time a month for foodie dates & fun. Paying in advance makes the time flow more organically. I am always ISO new friends with benefits.
Im had a friend (hate the word provider) who live about 5 minutes from me who'd text me to see If I wanted to go to a movie or stop by with a bottle of wine or go for sushi just hand outn and we did that often and most times wouldn't play. If we did I'd always gift her. Bussiness is business and hanging out is just that hanging out. It was fun and worked for us
That's what I'm talkin' about! If it's dinner, drinks, an event, etc. we go as friends. If we play it's I pay since that's her business. Not easy to find but a perfect scenario if both can keep it in perspective.
Yes, a client & companion can have a wonderful friends with benefits. That could last for years.
Provided there's mutual respect for each other. That both are in agreement every step of the way. That no one individual is controlling nor taking advantage of, the (friendship with benefits).
Friends with benefits doesn't have to just be the client & companion. You can spice it up and invite other couples or another guy or gal to join in at times.
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