Okay here goes  so I am a 62 year old man and just about 6 or 7 months ago was waking up with morning wood that would have taken a chainsaw to do anything about it.  I have suffered from depression and anxiety for years, and now enlarged prostate.  I am taking medications for all these conditions and the doctors have been playing with different medications to see what might work better.

The bad news (and I think it is the enlarged prostate medication(s) causing the problem) but now I have a hard time getting an erection at all.  Can you imagine how I feel?  I am afraid I could be like this for the rest of my life.  Occasionally I get hard but since the wife is no longer into sex of any form it goes to waste.

I am hoping there is a younger woman here that might be willing to help me with my problem. Maybe you know special tricks, are patient or have come across this before?  Honestly at this point in time even a half hard happy ending would be nice.

Any takers or tips on what to do?

Thanks So Much!

First, assess your nutrition and exercise status.   Eating more healthily (less salt, sugar, fat, more fruits and vegetables and good hydration really can help.)

 
Next, consider vitamin V (Viagra, Cialis, etc.) as a means to get your wood back.

 
Finally, consider seeing gals who are true practitioners of tantra sexual techniques.   These are guided to enhancing the eroticism of the experience and can be very effective.

 
I'm 68 and started to notice a decline about 10 years ago, but using these techniques has really had a positive impact.

 
Best of luck to you.

I only have one prong, however, I can use it multiple times.

 
Tho I think you use the term in a different context.

 
Thank You  
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A healthy lifestyle and a PDE5 inhibitor will help. Also I recommend you discuss with your urologist as other BPH treatment options could be considered. Further discuss with your primary care physician as you may be on two or more meds that are contributing to the ED. Good luck.

Obviously NONE of us are qualified to give you specific advice on how to adjust your meds, but the advice to check with your urologist is sound.

 
Anti depressants and prostate meds are BOTH known for wreaking havoc "down there" You'd be surprised what a very small adjustment in those meds may do for you. Good luck.

mrfisher is right: eat less salt, sugar, salt, flour, potatoes, red meat. Eat more vegetables, fruit, fish, chicken.  

Exercise: walk, get an e-bike and ride, do yoga (hot milfs in yoga pants is a side benefit), or Vietnamese longevity stretching exercises.  

(I asked my longevity stretching exercise how this helped in increasing longevity. After listing a number of benefits, she said "And if someone tries to rob you and you cannot run away, you can use some of these moves to defend yourself." (Go to the kick movements at about 25 minutes into the video.)

I have tried tantra sexual techniques - effectiveness depends on the teacher.  

Generic Viagra really helps. I get the 20 mg. tablets and take 3 or 4 depending on how I feel.

Anti-depressants are a real boner killer. What I do is NOT recommended by any physicians, but they are not 70. When I have a date I take only half of my anti-depressant dose that morning. I take the rest after the date.  

And try not to jerk off.

Good luck!