ok so i'm a white guy and cannot possibly know the horrors of discrimination in my everyday life that blacks and other minorities must go through.
however, here in the hobby i am rejected quite a lot for my specific preference, which will go unnamed here, because although i and my lady friends who indulge do not think it a big deal, it is a huge button pusher amongst the general population. even here on these boards when it gets mentioned it gets plenty of negative blowback by people who otherwise would be espousing "freedom" and "inclusiveness."
that being said, within the parameters of my sexual play preference, i have been rejected by plenty of women i have approached about dates. beyond rejection, i have been called an awful lot of nasty names.
so, no, i can't relate to discrimination in my daily life. but i can totally relate to women in this endeavor rejecting me for reasons that make no sense on the surface (the surface being: i got the money, you provide the fun).
so, what do you do? you move on. you learn that what you are is not for everybody, and for their own reasons, and their own reasons don't have to make sense to you or even to the world. it just is what it is.
rest assured, when i was first rejected by several women, it hurt. i would continue to bug them, begging them for a date. that's not a good idea, take it from me.
the best path is to move on. find people that will see you. and don't dwell on the people that won't.
try not to see it in the larger picture of injustice in the world. try not to take it personal. this endeavor is not real life. it's play. it's fantasy. there are good times to be had here, but you must look for them.