> How many visits before you realized she was your ATF?
I think you have to see a lady at least 3 times before she becomes a favorite. Otherwise, she just be a change of pace. How long to become an "all time" is debatable. Current Favorite is probably a better description for most.
> Is your ATF based on easiness of access, cost, or a real connection?
Connection. A lot of ladies are easy to see, or value propositions. It takes more than that to be an ATF. A lady that is attractive, provides good service, at a reasonable price, may be a "go to" girl. But, without something special, is not an ATF. You have to want to see her, not just want to see anyone.
My favorites are chosen because we have a close connection, Chemistry as it were in other words and we become friends on a certain level instead of just client and provider.
Connections have been a topic of late. Certainly I like to THINK there is a real connection, but are you ever REALLY sure? Some posts make me think otherwise. In my own experiences when my ATF retired there was not even a goodbye, and providers tell me they often wonder why their bed is empty. Is it the nature if the hobby? To really qualify as an ATF I hope there is a mutual connection and a real friendship. I think the real test for friendship in the hobby is if you let each other into your personal lives. It seems in the hobby there is a higher standard for friendship.
If you say it is the p4p aspect I would counter that I have many customers and vendors that I have formed a friendship with.
date. Saw her every time I visited a certain city for over two years before she retired. She once said, "I just love to suck your cock." Since I was still just past being a newbie, I believed her.
I saw my ATF about a year ago. We hit it off within 10 minutes of the session. Yes she is very attractive but it was more about the conversation. She emailed me the next day and then it seemed like we emailed back and forth every day. Now we text back and forth every day discussing what is going on in our lives. I see her about once a month for an extended session and sometimes we get together to go shopping or to have dinner otc.
I met my ATF 9years ago and by the second session felt we had a real connection. She moved away and we lost contact for two years until I emailed her on the remote chance that she would be back and she had just moved back in town. The connection was instantly renewed . We have since taken trips together and even though she no longer live in my city, we managevto get together 4-5times a year. Yes, connection is most important.
That's been over a year ago....and nothing has changed my mind since.
There has been a war on a couple of the regional boards over scoring...let me just say that if TER were to grant each of us only one lifetime 10/10, I'd give it to her without hesitation.
But Why?
First.....she is one of the top rated TER providers, so I am not alone in my judgement. Appearance? The absolute most beautiful I've ever seen. Performance? Again....the absolute most fun, most romantic, most passionate, the sensual. BUT!!!! The real reason: I don't know how she does it -- I try never to forget that I'm just a client, and I look in the mirror every morning -- but somehow, every time we're together she makes me feel like there's no where else she'd rather be.
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