I recently read a review on this site which attributed a particularly orgasmic experience to having edged himself for two to three days prior to the encounter. Does anyone else recommend this? Seems counter-intuitive to me having always been told that us older gents should completely abstain for several days prior.

Different Old Folks React Differently.   Edging may work for some while abstaining for others.  Heck, I beat off almost daily, sometimes even the morning of the appointment and still have no problems.

I search for providers who have edging skills. Hard to find but what an experience if you can. Doing it yourself might work but its hard to pull off for married guys. Also, I have a feeling I would fail to stop at the right time.  Having a appointment for a regular monthly meeting from a hot provider I see monthly is about all the tease I need for now.  

When I get to the edge, I have to jump^^!

whose problem is that they tend to come too quickly.

Edging is fun. I have many friends who do this before seeing me because they state they last longer for me. Idk because I am not a man, but apparently it givens them stamina. These clients age from 38-67. I provide edging it’s a playful technique that never gets old.

Don't get me wrong. I love edging with a provider who is good at it and enjoys it. But is it useful the day before or two days before? Maybe experimentation is the only way to find out, but with so many other variables, not sure I would learn much.

Some older gentlemen do have a problem staying hard for longer periods of time. It's just nature doing it's thing. I have found gentlemen with that problem have a better experience using a cock ring. It allows a more prolonged flow. I also have found older and even young men holding back can ruin their opportunity to orgasm because Mr Penis gets desensitized or loses the erection. I think a better outcome would be had with a lady who has seen you before

Yes, i typically try to not cum for the first 30-45 minutes.  That can cause me to not be able to cum at all.  But it is worth it for the other fun parts.  If I just wanted to cum, I could do that in the first 10 minutes.