A couple months ago I slipped bareback into a local mature provider, and found it kinda thrilling.  I rationalized it on the basis that she's not a crazy young thing, and  I'm thinking of doing it again.  What do you think?  Would you do it?  Or is this another case of a trick thinking with his dick?

Uncovered pu$$ie$ and daty and rimming cleaner and safer than an uncovered d!ck?? Clients request bareback with paid professionals.Clients get upset when clients have to use condoms  in paid sessions

...10 years when my last relationship broke up, while bbfs sounds tempting the dangers to the whole P for P community are far to great, now if providers will use F C as far as I am concerned the fucking is just as good as bareback.

She provides an echo of the concepts in the OP without expressing a firm outlook, so that the reader can  judge for themselves.

No more dangerous than riding a motorcycle without a skid lid.

a few months later.

looks like Jewels nuts are hot again..

You decide. A mature provider has had more opportunities to pick up a gift for you from somewhere.

After rock cliimbing for 25 years, i made a super veteran mistake and didn't sew up a very easy but long climb wiyh orotection in the rock. I ran out 30 feet of climb, I slipped on this stupidly easy climb and fell 60 feet  

Excellent post for all ages. STDs aren't airborne. They are like wasps; you don't want to bring them into your house.

Shana, I think your response to this nails it.  Especially for older guys, that extra thrill can be particularly tempting, but it is, of course, a huge mistake because there is no way of telling, from external appearance and behavior, what the true risk is in any situation.  You seem like a really humane person, and I liked your site - I would be honored to get together with you if I'm ever in your area (I live in southern Oregon).  So best to you.

The way I see it - any provider that will let me BB - I don't want to spend time with because I KNOW I am not the only one.

Not to be harsh but.................

Not  harsh at all .
 They don't say don't have sex… Just when you do… Do it safely!

A discussion I'd had with a Dr. about STDs one day, was that seniors are high risk for STDs because no one wants the hassle of a condom due to ED and also that they think somehow their companions arent "sleeping around"  

If shes a mature provider who is risk taking and doesnt test, sure. Ive not had anything communicable and test frequently. Its up to us to set the rules, though and if I were a gentleman I would not see anyone who was okay with me going bareback. Im not a porn star and the guys arent either. I suppose people could show one another their tests, but I still dont trust that, either. Id rather be safe than sorry.

I have thought about it. Send me a link to her, if you don't mind

Just  Do It !

I decided to quit smoking 30 years ago, but that's just me. Lots of people continue to smoke knowing it's bad for their health. I don't judge them because I know how hard it is to quit. I think bareback is similar. Some people find it hard to stop.

Would you be so kind as to send me her link

what difference does it make!  At our age, by the time it becomes a problem, we could be in the ground because of something else!

My question is why women don't use FC.  It is intuitively obvious that the FC is far safer and almost as good as BB.
Wouln't that help everyone.

Female condoms

So let's say there's a relatively low chance of getting HIV, and I believe that. OK, so mayyybe, just maybe you might be OK. Now, what about: Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, Antibiotic resistant Syphilis, and a ton of other bugs that are out there that guys who get around either get or pass. You're really always better off to go with a female condom, or a thin condom with a little lubricant on the inside.