For me full sex with a cover does not really do it for me anymore due to a lack of feeling. Anyone else in the same category ?  Also I am a one and done guy. Looking for input from others and hopefully an on going discussion about how each of us deal with this ?  Not really looking for guys who claim they blow three times in an hour.  Old guys speak up.

The hand can apply more pressure and direct it exactly where it counts.  

I tend to favor providers who give bbbjs before the cover goes on.  That helps raise my expectations. And yes, haven’t had more than one pop a session in years.

...coupled with lfk/dfk, I agree 100%.  
-Hoot.

I'm big on dirty talk, lots of eye contact, and arousing with my hands and mouth. I believe my talents are at an expert level. I am truly gifted. BBBJ for the win. 🏆 I love passionate DFK! I have magic hands. My goal to to make your life happier.

I use female condoms by default for anyone 60+, and I have found them to make an enormous difference. It’s rare that I see a gentleman for whom they don’t work well. That said, I’m also more than happy to do some high quality hand and mouth work. The definition of sex is so much broader than PIV, and my older friends are especially likely to understand and enjoy this.

Great responses from everyone, thank you ! So guys and girls how would you describe/ ask for the type session we are talking about. Particularly interested in what the lady's have to say ? Or would you just book and try to describe once there ?  

I don't mind discussing details after vetting and receiving a deposit. I recently met a new friend who was well endowed tell me he has issues with this fun fact because it's hard to communicate with the providers. I am sure it can be very difficult.

Female condoms also? Unless you specifically request the old fashion kind I only use the female ones. The experience is so much better. When guys say there is lack of feeling I wonder if it is just mental or if they have only tried the old fashion condoms.

I'll take Queen Bia's approach every time as opposed to trying to use a condom. Dirty talk with plenty of eye contact combined with lot's of oral ... giving and receiving ... are my kind of sessions.

This is common as we age, and the reality is that it opens up so many avenues for exploration, excitement and intimacy.  Mutual stimulation, eye contact, kisses both light and deep, sweet or dirty words….  I love discovering how to please my partner without intercourse!

Mesmerizing green eyes as I expertly
stroke, and orally pleasure you to
Nirvana.

I wish more providers understood how sensual a session like that is. It's really hard to find ladies who get it. It's one reason why I prefer providers 40 and over. Any thoughts/suggestions on how to approach this with a provider in advance to let them know what type of session you're looking for?

I used to prefer FBSM providers because of the more focused attention.  It seems as if the boundaries of FBSM have been extended and oral is offered more often.  I've been fortunate to find a FS provider who understands my physical limitations and is very orally gifted.

Yep! Nothing beats a great head game followed by a perfect CIM finish! It goes without saying that bbbj and hj are incorporated into a top notch performance! It just so happens that I just saw (and reviewed) one such headmonster! Amazingly her price was almost the same as a typical happy ending massage! I lasted 15-20 minutes of a 30 minute session, so I have to go back to see if I can endure 30 minutes of that ecstasy!  I think she is one of two providers in the LA area who offer these exclusively focused sessions! There’s a place in my lineup for this provider once a month or close to it!! Booyah!!!

At any age, particularly golden ages, when she chooses your cobra shaft deep down her throat over breathing air, that’s gotta motivate the huge release with the quickness; or at least a strong intention to jizz directly down that hallow pipe. Just a slight gulp would follow, no swallowing needed, no hands.. easy clean up!