I've seen thread after thread on some of the other forums over the years as to the difference between GFE and PSE.  Those of us with a few years under our belts have learnt that sexual definitions are not binary, but analog.  The differences are often subtle, and specific to the people and feelings of a specific time.  Is Suzy a GFE or a PSE?  Depends on her partner, how he feels, how she feels, the events of the day, the events going on in each of their lives, etc.  Oh, mind you, Suzy is going to perform, that is not the issue, but rather how that performance is interpreted by both parties.  

My overly simplistic definition is that GFE is making love, while PSE is fucking.  Nothing wrong with either mind you, and depending on the mood I am in, I try to choose which experience I will get.  Sometimes however, I am surprised, and it is different.  Oddly enough, it is always a pleasant surprise.

The truth is, despite this being a business, and basically a performance, there is or can be a connection between the partners.  Chemistry happens!  One lady I know called this the perks of the business.  For the ladies there are the "grin and bare it" sessions, that pay the freight but that is about it.  My goal has always been to try to make the lady has happy as she is making me.  Often that can and does lead to an even higher state of joy for both parties.  Occasionally, it does not.  Mr. Chemistry took a hike!

Going back to the original premise, and the reason for posting on this forum, I have found, albeit far from statistically relevant, that with older providers I tend to make love.  The younger, I tend to fuck.  Now maybe it is because I have much more in common with older providers and chemistry is easier.  

I've rambled a lot here, but wondering what others thoughts are.

For me the difference between PSE and GFE is the level of affection that isn't sexual.  Kissing, hugging, touching, cuddling - all of that is GFE in my perspective.

PSE is less non sexual affection and more sexual activities.

I can't say I've noticed any correlation between affection/fucking.

I can only say that each is a unique blend of talents that incorporate both aspects.

I do think however, there is a correlation as to height.

Taller providers are much more physical for some reason.

Go figure.

are more into communication and creating a chemistry as the backdrop for sensual, romantic lovemaking. Younger providers tend to be more physical and less mental. There is no substitute for experience and maturity, for both men as well as women, when it comes to appreciating ones own sexual and the ability to please the other.

.....what she said.......

the only real difference ive seen is the price..some providers charge xx amount for gfe..then they charge xxx extra for pse..i never really asked what extras were involved in the higher price..we had such a good session it really didnt matter to me..i paid the gfe rate but it felt like a pse..i guess we both forgot or didnt care..

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I think the correlation is with age. I agree somewhat with the height  (such as Piper and Jazz) but have also found exceptions ....Yvette Von comes t o mind as far as the height exception. All three are older more mature ladies with great imagination and a tremendous sex drive.