not into including graphic details.  that's why i haven't written reviews for a while

who want to know what to expect, and not expect.

I try to give out those details in a classy way, and then say how the gal made me feel, which, I think, is the more important angle to the review.

about writing the juicy details. If your in the more mature age bracket your up-bringing  has taught you not to kiss and tell about such personal things. If you haven't written a review yet but have seen a lady or two is this uncomfortable feeling part of why you haven't written a review. Does anyone every blush or say good god while checking a lady out and reading her reviews. Does to much explicit conversation turn you off or turn you on.

Kisses Haley

but there are certain words or phrases I won't use.

Other members need to know if she looks like her pictures.  If she performs as promised.  Any rules, DOs or DON'Ts.  Perfered positions or activities generally, in case some one is looking for something in particular...  but we don't need a hump by hump or lick by lick...  I can write a review & be a gentleman too.
H

I've had reviews denied cause they said it wasnt juicy enough

Personally, I don't like writing graphic details IF it's just listing positions, one-liners, etc. If I've had a memorable experience, I try to describe not only what happened, but also how I felt. What thoughts and emotions did this lady create in me. Almost like a journal, that weeks or months...or years later, I can go back and read and relive again.

For example, my first ATF. At our first date, I could write: started DFK. Or, as I wrote, I could say: As she led me to her bedroom, she suddenly stopped, turned, and in one motion, wrapped her arms around my neck. What followed was what some might call a kiss...but to me it was something I had never experienced before in my life.  The softest, most tender, seductive kisses ever created. I will never forget this one special moment, standing there, as she starting making love to my lips. It was almost surreal. I only knew that I could have kissed her forever.

Yeah....I know it sounds mushy. But it helps me remember that moment. And I hope it helps my fellow bros think, "Maybe I'll feel that way too".

If the entire review takes the same approach, it can be more like erotic literature instead of a porno screen play.

Just my 2 cents

I am on two review boards the smaller one  does not require graphic details  3 things are important there..... is she the woman in pics .....some things that you enjoyed about your visit  and if you would repeat.....I kinda  like that privacy...... sometimes here guys have to embellish  to get the lady a good score especially our older gentlemen  maybe they  cannot preform as they once did  but certainly are not going to write that review so they write what they must to help us get it posted ......reviews truly can be fantasy  for some but others  have found a way to kiss and tell using the acronyms which is a much better way to go  IMHO good topic once again to our amazing poster Haley ! Woman  you are the bomb !!!!!!

because it was not explicit enough. So the provider and I decided to have fun with the revision...I read some old letters to Penthouse and we picked out the funniest terms we could find...throbbing member - love stick - honey pot - etc. etc. We composed a review that was entirely accurate but which made the 2 of us laugh our heads off. That is what makes this woman my ATF...the greatest sense of humor on the planet!

might have posted this once before but whatever, had a review rejected cause I asked " are you familiar with the expression ' a lady in the kitchen and a whore in bed'"?

was told you cant call a provider a "whore"

I understand that and never do , but its just a common expression not at aimed anyone in particular

I saw a provider whose face was a legitamate one

In the review I said "if youre looking for eye candy, look somewhere else"

she was very hurt that I said that , but it was true , I reminded her that she told me that guys would leave when she opened the door.

I also included in the review that she was a VERY nice woman ( cause she was ) and that she " could suck the chrome off a tailpipe"

We remained very good friends and she told me she got tons of appts from that review

I think a lot of men write juicy details to tell a story about their encounter. I wrote a review saying my experience was similar to several previous reviews. I gave her an 8 but it was rejected because I did  not go into enough detail.

I only write a review if the lady says yes to one.  As long as I am not going to add or detract from her previous reviews, what is the sense?

But when I am asked to write, I am one of those crazy guys that think it's the 'whole' experience that is important.  Once you get past the initial impression, looks, outfit, ease of seeing and such.  I would much rather write about what she offers the mind and my senses.  Such as does she feel like a girlfriend, can she carry on a conversation, is she wild or slow and gentle, is she all that and a bag of chips.  Rather than saying She did this and that and grabbed the ceiling fan and spun.

I walk away from a date with a thought or feeling.  That is what I really want to convey to the reader.  I have walked away and thought 'Damn she is passioate', or 'wow she is a barrel of energy' or even 'what a sweetheart'.  I somehow want to make the reader see what I saw. Not to mention those Kodak moments that return every time I think of her in the future.  

Sometimes things feel too private, and I many times leave things out that I want to hold in myself. You know, its mine and I dont want to share it.  What is really nice is going back and not having to share anything afterwards.   I like that.

I too have been asked to re-submit after being rejected for too few juicy details... I would prefer to share the least about those moments that were the most meaningful. I do try to use gentlemanly language.

just touch the edges.  I think it depends on whether the meeting was more GFE or PSE.  

I always try to write the first draft as soon as I can. I think I get a lot of emotions mixed in with the down and dirty details.

which I can't do right now, I do not use explicitly graphic language.  The story gets told so the reader knows what went on.

Swim

that my early ones were prob more graphic than later ones.  I have no idea why I decided to go this route.

Swim

It is/was - would love to compose with you - ever travel to NYC??

Then I inadvertently found a very short review while I was browsing TER.  When I found it, I noticed that all of this particular member's reviews were very short.  So I went back and read the review my client sent me.  Sure enough, his review was longer and more detailed than the ones already posted by this other member.  So I contacted TER.  Just so there was no confusion, I explained that I didn't know the poster I was using for comparison.  Then I copied and pasted both reviews so they could see the difference.  They approved my client's review almost immediately.  

I have found TER to be very easy to deal with.  I have had to contact the powers that be a few times.  TER staff were always quick to address an issue, or update information on my profile when I needed to make some changes.  

I think it's great that you and your lady friend found a way to make it fun, instead of sulking over it.  Good for you!  She sounds like a keeper!  

Betty xoxo

What my boy Roadie said.

do not need to me said.

I haven't had trouble getting review approved so I guess my balance is working.  I can write a review & be a gentleman too...  at least I feel they are.

H

I agree with you!!! There should be some form of restrictions on the reviews. Too much information is just that...too much information. All the descriptive details aren't necessary. Some of the reviews look like they are just copied from others and it makes you wonder if the guy actually saw the girl in the first place.

I normally only write reviews only if the experience is re is exceptional or problematic.  Most are somewhere in between.

Personally I an not the kind to kiss and tell and usually provide just enough detail for ter.
I like to know about "services" but the details are not important. i can sometime sense if a connection was made and those are the ladies of interest to me. After all it is what goes on between the "acts' that gets the high performance marks

Some of my favorite ladies refer to themselves as whores or hookers. An Atf of mine refers to herself as the happy hooker,
And as a poet "whore" just has so much potential for good poetry.
In many cases, it is not meant in a derogatory sense. When will we be old enough to tell the difference!